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Which came first: sending your save-the-dates or asking your wedding party?

Jayla, on December 11, 2018 at 11:05 AM

Posted in Planning 102

What did you check off of your planning checklist first? Was it sending out your save-the-dates, or officially asking your friends or family to be in the wedding party? Photo by Marina Rey Photography in Greensboro, NC Next Question: Which came first: deciding on your first dance song or your songs...

What did you check off of your planning checklist first? Was it sending out your save-the-dates, or officially asking your friends or family to be in the wedding party?

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Photo by Marina Rey Photography in Greensboro, NC


Next Question: Which came first: deciding on your first dance song or your songs for parent dances?

Back to the Beginning: Which came first?


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  • Gabbysitaxo
    Dedicated October 2021
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    I asked my wedding party first! It was more fun seeing their reactions and I was excited to tell them.

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  • Michelle
    Rockstar December 2022
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    Save the dates come first. While we know who we want to ask, there is no reason at all to ask them any earlier than 6 months. Save the dates go out at 12 months.
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