A month ago I asked my fiance if he had any "musts" for the wedding. He listed just a few things, one of which was a Dollar Dance. For those of you who aren't familiar with this, its a supposed tradition where guests are invited to pay for a dance with the bride and/or groom (I think it's usually the bride). I am pretty dead-set against having a Dollar Dance because my family thinks they are incredibly tacky. One of my cousins had a Dollar Dance at her wedding and everyone was whispering behind her back the entire time, wondering why she didn't ask for help financially instead of begging for money at the wedding. When I explained this to my fiance, he got offended because the Dollar Dance is a tradition in his family. His two cousins had them at their weddings and he always thought we would do it at ours. (CONTINUED)