So, my wedding will more than likely max out at 50 people with both my family and his combined. And we're not even sure that many will come. Lol
That said, how do you make a registry when you're starting from next to nothing (we live separately, and although I've started collecting things for our house together all I have equipped is the kitchen, bathroom, and our library lolol) he's going to be in charge of getting our house furnished when we finally get it!! Lol but there's more to a home than a Kitchen, bathroom, and a couch/bed/table, you get it lol...
So..... How much stuff do I put on a registry? With such a small guest list should I even have one? Is it rude to have one with such a small group coming? Is it rude to have one when there's family drama going on? (Some of my family might not come because of the level of drama... some haven't spoken to me in 3 years because of it...I REALLY don't want any of them to think I'm only inviting them so they get something for my house... because THAT IS NOT THE CASE. I LOVE my family, I don't want them to think I invited them for what they can offer me when I'm inviting them to share the best day of my life so far with me and the love of my life) How do I go about inviting them when they haven't been a part of my life in so long? Should I only mention the registry to non-drama-affiliated family members? Or just not have one at all so I don't cause offense? What do I put on it if I do make one? What is the limit? One item per guest invited? (Like if 50 people were invited, only list 50 small items or something?) I'm so confused!!!!
Please help!! My FH and I want to have a great day together just enjoying each other and our families on such a beautiful ans holy day. Any and all advise welcome!!! Thank you!!