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Mary
Super June 2017

Postponing the wedding

Mary , on August 16, 2016 at 9:40 PM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 168

So, y'all have heard already I'm postponing the wedding for a while but I do have a question. Is it rude to go ahead and have the shower that is scheduled for Saturday? Both of us have people coming in from out of town/ out of state for it. What should I do?

So, y'all have heard already I'm postponing the wedding for a while but I do have a question. Is it rude to go ahead and have the shower that is scheduled for Saturday? Both of us have people coming in from out of town/ out of state for it. What should I do?

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  • Kathleen Smith
    Kathleen Smith ·
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    Hi Mary. Can you give us aaaaaaalllllll the details in one single post?

    pretty please?

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  • CatBones
    Expert July 2020
    CatBones ·
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    Taco- I'll search around let you know if I find any.

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  • CatBones
    Expert July 2020
    CatBones ·
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    Also yes hello there's a cat wedding??!?!

    Please live stream it. There are cakes for cats that you can make and find recipes on Pinterest. Every couple deserves a wedding cake.

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  • Mary
    Super June 2017
    Mary ·
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    They were invited to the shower with the pretense of getting a wedding invite. Yes, i was honest with them. Also, everybody of the wedding list was called and told thay the wedding was postponed and that there will be updates to come but a luncheon would happen shower or no shower.

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  • CrystalQueenB
    Master August 2016
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    So many plots and twist with this one! Mary your BAM would be one for the books!

    Be sure to post all the gifts and photos from the shower! I can't wait to see them! *side eye*


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  • Mary
    Super June 2017
    Mary ·
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    ASR is registered for donations to the local shelter in form of treats or volunteer time.

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  • Melissa
    Master March 2018
    Melissa ·
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    Jenny. Please don't be ridiculous. ASR is fancy. He's clearly registered at petfancy.

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  • E+T
    Super September 2017
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    Lmao you've got to be shitting me. ETA-like I think it's great if people volunteer at the shelter and all but for real? He's "registered"?

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  • Kathleen Smith
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    The luncheon idea is perfect!

    ETA : I agree. Let your guests know the wedding has been post poned and that you are not having a bridal shower. "Although the bridal shower has been cancelled we hope you can join us for a luncheon gathering with family and friends."

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  • BeachDreams
    Master May 2017
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    Martini glass PSA: someone is selling a set of 3 on ebay http://www.ebay.com/itm/SET-OF-3-PINK-FLAMINGO-LONG-STEM-MARTINI-GLASSES-/291840913610?hash=item43f312f0ca:gSmiley surprise6QAAOSwzJ5XfslY

    Sorry for hijacking your thread Mary. But as pps have mentioned, I would encourage guests to not bring a gift and host them well.

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  • Ali
    Master June 2017
    Ali ·
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    Is ASR fixed? You don't need kittens after the honeymoon.


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  • CrystalQueenB
    Master August 2016
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    @Melissa ASR the aristocat! Jenny score on the acronym, ain't no way I was spelling that hot mess, I mean name out! Lol


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  • Amanda
    Super May 2017
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    I just got here... What the heck acid trip did I stumble into??? LMAO

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  • Mary
    Super June 2017
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    There will be an ASR BAM on Monday. We're all too serious around here.

    ASR is getting fixed in Friday.

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  • bellamae
    Master March 2017
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    Are you and ASR having a joint shower?

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  • Ali
    Master June 2017
    Ali ·
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    Mary, I am taking your registration comment as confirmation of the wedding. Please don't let us down.

    We need a BAM by Monday at the latest.

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  • MarleyAnne22
    Super October 2016
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    I'm dying laughing over these comments!! Y'all are great! Made my night.

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  • Meant to be Busby
    Super October 2016
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    What the fuck is happening

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  • Ali
    Master June 2017
    Ali ·
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    Please don't mess with our emotions Mary. We are all emotionally vested in ASR's marriage.

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  • Mary
    Super June 2017
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    There will be a BAM. No shower for ASR though.

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