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Mary
Super June 2017

Postponing the wedding

Mary , on August 16, 2016 at 9:40 PM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 168

So, y'all have heard already I'm postponing the wedding for a while but I do have a question. Is it rude to go ahead and have the shower that is scheduled for Saturday? Both of us have people coming in from out of town/ out of state for it. What should I do?

So, y'all have heard already I'm postponing the wedding for a while but I do have a question. Is it rude to go ahead and have the shower that is scheduled for Saturday? Both of us have people coming in from out of town/ out of state for it. What should I do?

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  • Melissa
    Master March 2018
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    This is how I feel on all of Mary's posts. I always have to refresh and double check she's the op.

    Come back our little majestic unicorn!!


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  • VJ
    Super November 2016
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    I wouldn't cancel but I'd also be upfront with my guests.

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  • E+T
    Super September 2017
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    I'm so happy I'm finally on for one of Mary's posts but now she's all like


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  • The Trap Selena
    Master March 2016
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    @Beatrice I'm not sure how I feel now. I'm either shocked that this is someone's life or I'm impressed that someone has such an incredible imagination.

    @Beach see attached meme for my reaction.


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  • Mrs. TacoCat
    VIP September 2016
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    I have not had a fun day.... I made a drink and will start at the beginning. This post better not disappoint, Mary!


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  • Melissa
    Master March 2018
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    E&t HAHAHAHAHHAAH yes!

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  • bellamae
    Master March 2017
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    ASR's honeyfund is the only one I'm willing to donate to.

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  • Beutivant
    Master May 2016
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    Are any of your guests flying in from out of town? Flights are a lot harder to cancel without penalty than hotel reservations. If no one is flying, I think you should cancel. If people are...eek, you're in a tough spot for sure. Not positive I would know what to do either.

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  • Ali
    Master June 2017
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    Gertrude is purrfect

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  • E+T
    Super September 2017
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    I wanna send ASR to Catifornia so he can be kidnapped by someone who can teach him how to pee in a litter box.

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  • Formal Pajamas
    Master November 2023
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    @E+T This is too true. I died.

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  • B
    Master July 2026
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    @keri awhile ago she posted stuff with her name on it and I, like the asshole I am checked it out. Vetted and confirmed as real.

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  • The Trap Selena
    Master March 2016
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    @Jenny I think you just mind-fucked me. Was I just mind-fucked? Lol

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  • Mary
    Super June 2017
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    My mom is hosting. We were talking about it and she said it was up to me. Almost everybody coming form out of town will be flying. They will be invited to the wedding.

    Here's a pic of ASR


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  • B
    Master July 2026
    Beatrice ·
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    Beautiful picture of ASR the white brings out his eyes.

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  • Mrs. TacoCat
    VIP September 2016
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    Thanks Jenny! They are my favorite martini glasses ever! FH thinks I am ridiculous .... I probably am :-)

    Mary... Cancel. I would be pissed. Erin is right... If you really cut your guest list for the wedding I am sure some of those people are still on the shower guest list. Rude AF and you know that.

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  • Melissa
    Master March 2018
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    If their flights are already booked you need to reach out to them ASAP and let them know the change and put it on them to decide if they want to come. And please please, don't have another shower later!!

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  • Mary
    Super June 2017
    Mary ·
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    The pic didn't upload right. Here's one from the night he came home.


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  • E+T
    Super September 2017
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    No, this is a pic of ASR and his pretty bride.

    Omg Mary you're using the acronym too


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  • Ali
    Master June 2017
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    Jenny I just choked on my popcorn

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