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Mary
Super June 2017

Postponing the wedding

Mary , on August 16, 2016 at 9:40 PM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 168

So, y'all have heard already I'm postponing the wedding for a while but I do have a question. Is it rude to go ahead and have the shower that is scheduled for Saturday? Both of us have people coming in from out of town/ out of state for it. What should I do?

So, y'all have heard already I'm postponing the wedding for a while but I do have a question. Is it rude to go ahead and have the shower that is scheduled for Saturday? Both of us have people coming in from out of town/ out of state for it. What should I do?

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  • MrsA2B
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  • BeachDreams
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    ^^Jenny, I feel like that is six star worthy!

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  • Ali
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    Jenny, how proud are you at this very moment.

    Be honest, are you happier now than on the day you got engaged?

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  • Mary
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    @Taco I've reached out to the ones not on the list anymore (mostly friends and cousins) and let them know that the wedding was post poned and the guest list was downsized and they are no longer invited. ( Invitations haven't been sent out)

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  • CatBones
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    TacoCat I love your martini glass! Where did you get it I need one!!

    Also I have no idea what's happening now and I regret leaving this site for the past few hours.

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  • Kactus Kat
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    Y'ALL. My photo should not be associated with this thread. This regal cat is trying to celebrate a joyous occasion, not simply be a place holder for an ill advised shower.

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  • Erin381
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    I would call guests right now. Let them know the wedding is postponed for more than a year - still excellent choice by the way - and ask them not to bring gifts. Also remove everything form your registry not purchased so no one last min shops.

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  • E+T
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    Oh shit @Katie90 I didn't know! I'll take it down!

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  • Erin381
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    Ewwwwwwww what a conversation to have

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  • Melissa
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    Wait. So you told people that didn't get invites that they ARENT invited. But haven't bothered to tell those that are invited the change in plans?? Mary. No.

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  • KDS
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    Have you let all of your guests know that the wedding is postponed?

    I personally would be unhappy about attending a shower for an event that may or may not happen. You need to call your guests tonight and let them know what's going on.

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  • Ali
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    Mary, level with us where do we stand on the whole cat wedding thing? Your guests can't possibly mad at a surprise cat wedding.


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  • JoRocka
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    I admit I only came in here and read five pages to see the inevitable bomb dropping before the also inevitable posting and ghosting.

    5 pages and nothing.

    #disappointed.

    Also ASR looks pissedAF- can't really blame him though- considering you rub his face in urine like a neantertal dog.

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  • CatBones
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    Is ASR the cat or the boyfriend? Comments make this unclear.

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  • Mrs. TacoCat
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    Oh my. You told people they didn't make the cut. Eww.

    @cat I found it for sale on a local FB page. It was a set :-)

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  • CatBones
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    Taco- well it looks like I'm saving that pic and doing a google search because I need it in my life.

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  • Bethany0821
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    Wait. If invites weren't sent out why were people told they were uninvited?

    Need.more.wine.

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  • Ali
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    There should absolutely be a tshirt for that.

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  • Mrs. TacoCat
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    Cat - I really want to find wine glasses too! If you come across any let me know!

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