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Sarah
Sending save-the-dates: too far out?
Sarah, on April 8, 2021 at 9:24 PM

Our wedding is November 6, 2022 and most of our guests will be traveling from out of town. We’re putting our deposit down at Doubletree suites in June, and I was thinking of sending save-the-dates...

Nicole, Apr 9, 2021 21 856 1
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Can i pay the vendors In full before wedding day?
Ana, on April 8, 2021 at 8:02 AM

I was given the option to pay the remaining balance day of for DJ, Photo, video and photo booth but I would really like to do it now, get it over with and not have that to worry about wedding day.. do...

Izzykern, Apr 9, 2021 8 516
Rebecca
"Quirky" weddings - or a thread for those of us who don't always quite fit!
Rebecca, on March 28, 2021 at 3:57 AM

People often ask what style your wedding is, or the 'season', or something like that! Well, DH and I didn't quite have a style, nor were our colors very seasonal... and, while we did have a theme, it...

Rosie, Apr 9, 2021 6 889 1
Cj
On the fence to invite
Cj, on April 7, 2021 at 1:20 PM

Hi ladies - I'm curious of your experience with guest lists and people whom you were on the fence about inviting. Did you end up inviting or excluding them and were you happy or regretting the...

Sarah, Apr 8, 2021 7 473
Chelsea
rsvp
Chelsea, on April 8, 2021 at 1:33 PM

Hi all! We have sent our wedding invitations 12 weeks out. Our guest are starting the get them in the mail. How long did it take for your guest to RSVP. Most of our guest are local with some out of...

Ty, Apr 8, 2021 11 523
Danielle
Invitation assembly mistake big deal or not really!
Danielle, on March 7, 2021 at 11:20 PM

I’m having major anxiety over this. I already sealed all of my invitations and I just realized I assembled them wrong. I put the rsvp and detail card behind the invitation instead of in front and I...

Catherine, Apr 8, 2021 18 779
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Wedding Sendoff
Dani, on April 8, 2021 at 12:02 PM

So my venue allows us the option of either a confetti cannon or sparklers to end the reception. At my cousin's wedding, they did a bubble send off after the ceremony rather than at the end of the...

Heather, Apr 8, 2021 5 568
Liz
Wedding Date twins
Liz, on April 8, 2021 at 9:56 AM

Is it just me or do you love watching the number of people getting married on your date increase? When I first registered, it was high 1,000's now it's over 7,000. I love love!

Laquita, Apr 8, 2021 8 637
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Honoring Deceased Moms
Rian, on April 8, 2021 at 5:05 AM

My fiancé lost his mom in 2016 and I lost mine early this year in March. We are looking for ways to in a way- include them, in our ceremony. We’ve tossed around the idea of having their pictures and...

KYLIE, Apr 8, 2021 5 565
SLY
Hotel Room Blocks
SLY, on April 5, 2021 at 1:04 PM

Hello everyone! FH and I are starting to count up how many rooms we need to block off at the hotel. We have a lot of family members that would be fine sharing a room together, and that got us thinking...

Julie, Apr 8, 2021 19 851
Mina
Rehearsal Dinner Invite List
Mina, on April 8, 2021 at 10:40 AM

Hi all, I've read through a bit of rehearsal dinner etiquette but just wanted some opinions on our dilemma. We married last year on paper but pushed back the wedding + reception to this year due to...

SLY, Apr 8, 2021 4 480
Mary
Who pays the event fee? i know the bride pays for the venue..... Thanks!
Mary, on April 7, 2021 at 4:20 PM

Who pays the event fee? I know the bride pays for the venue..... Thanks!

SLY, Apr 8, 2021 5 250
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No kids
Sarah, on April 7, 2021 at 10:21 PM

I have a question about no kids at weddings.. I have 2 kids myself. At the wedding eldest will be over 4. Youngest will be 18months. Now tricky situation my boys haven't ever really been the centre of...

Jasmine S., Apr 8, 2021 9 705
Katherine
In the 100s!
Katherine, on April 7, 2021 at 11:10 AM

We have officially hit the 100s! Only 199 days to go! I'm so excited and ready for it to be here!

Pirate & 60s Bride, Apr 8, 2021 8 222
Nadia
How to do a seating chart for a destination wedding?
Nadia, on April 7, 2021 at 10:57 AM

Both my fiance and I are traveling to our wedding. I'm pretty set on having a seating chart but I'm unsure on how I would get it there and back since we are leaving for our honeymoon the next day. Do...

Rosie, Apr 7, 2021 13 2,916
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May 2021 Brides
Netasha, on October 4, 2020 at 10:16 PM

Hello! How are you all feeling about planning now with Covid? Are there any concerns? Do you feel that things will be better in 8 months?

Sherhonda, Apr 7, 2021 200 6,286 23
mrswinteriscoming
Did you lose time for photos with guests lingering around post ceremony?
mrswinteriscoming, on April 6, 2021 at 11:17 PM

We are doing photos both before and after our ceremony and will have about 60-75 minutes for photos before and 60 minutes for photos after. Because we have a little bit more time before the ceremony,...

Hannah, Apr 7, 2021 9 702 1
Alexis
Positive Covid test - 1 month until wedding
Alexis, on March 24, 2021 at 2:30 PM

Just tested positive for covid exactly a month before the wedding that’s already been postponed twice. I can’t get a break y’all 😥

Alexis, Apr 7, 2021 23 997
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Advice from Turkish brides: henna night
Leila, on April 6, 2021 at 7:14 PM

I am engaged and planning to elope in June. Covid safety is very important to me as I have lost many family members to it this past year. In addition to that, my fiancé and I are very shy, private...

Lynnie, Apr 7, 2021 2 917
Michelle
Wedding Postponed - Adding Additional Bridesmaid
Michelle, on April 5, 2021 at 12:30 PM

So I got married in November in a small ceremony with only my parents and husband’s parents. We had to postpone our original plans due to COVID and are having the wedding we always wanted this...

Lynnie, Apr 7, 2021 3 146
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