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Meghan
2 hrs enough - 1st look /pics
Meghan, on April 9, 2021 at 9:47 AM

We spoke to our venue and have a brief time line for our wedding (in September 2021). We would arrive at the venue at 2:30 for first look and pictures. The ceremony starts at 4:30, cocktail hour at 5,...

Lynnie, Apr 12, 2021 4 349
June
Cake in the face? Really?
June, on December 10, 2010 at 11:49 PM

Is it just me or is smashing cake in each other's face kind of mean? Am I being overly sensitive about this or does it bother anyone else? I don't see the humor in it, and I can make a joke about most...

Samantha, Apr 12, 2021 70 7,441
Ashley
Future sil wedding date
Ashley, on April 10, 2021 at 11:57 PM

Okay so, I've already discussed with my sister who is going to be my Matron of Honor about this but I'm lost at finding the right words to explain to my fiance about why I don't want our previously...

Jennifer, Apr 12, 2021 8 721
K
Postponed wedding celebration
Kres, on April 11, 2021 at 4:17 AM

Are you having a vow renewal with reception to follow? Or are you skipping the ceremony and having reception only? Are you wearing your wedding gown, etc..?

Jennifer, Apr 12, 2021 6 530 2
Michelle
Elements you are skipping
Michelle, on April 9, 2021 at 6:59 PM

What are you choosing to not include in your wedding? Maybe it doesn't mean anything to you and fiance or it's an unnecessary expense your guests would not partake in.

Jennifer, Apr 12, 2021 14 788
Juliana
What to play for a December wedding cocktail hour?
Juliana, on April 8, 2021 at 7:28 AM

Hey fellow Brides and B-T-B's! So, I got a great deal with my Dj with Unlimited Weddings and they gave me this App called Vibo that lets you put your own music on the list. How involved do you have to...

Ivory, Apr 12, 2021 7 480
Missy
Need some advice
Missy, on April 8, 2021 at 4:26 AM

Hello! I'm a young bride and I need some advice. I feel like I'm panicking about planning my wedding and I feel like I have to make everything perfect and be a people pleaser, everyone just tells me...

Ivory, Apr 12, 2021 13 752
dpierce
Wedding Invitations... Is it tacky????
dpierce, on July 11, 2013 at 1:49 PM

Is it tacky to email wedding invitations to some guest to save money?

Michelle, Apr 12, 2021 33 239 1
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Catering Question-- Better food or save money?
Emily, on April 7, 2021 at 8:52 PM

First post here! Getting married October 1, 2022 in Milwaukee, WI. We reached out to 2 catering companies and had a tasting for each. We are having a hard time deciding which one we should go with....

Ivory, Apr 12, 2021 18 806
Cornell
Rehearsal
Cornell, on April 8, 2021 at 10:15 AM

Is a rehearsal at your wedding venue still a thing?

Yasmine, Apr 12, 2021 6 580
T
Covid Safety Wordings
Trinity, on April 3, 2021 at 12:32 PM

I have a FAQ section on my web site, I would like to add something related to Covid concerns. For example, I want to put "How do we deal with covid safety?" I need wordings for the answer. Can you...

Cristina, Apr 12, 2021 10 708 2
Meghan
Feeling guilty
Meghan, on April 11, 2021 at 8:38 AM

I know being apart of a wedding can quickly add up, especially being a MOH/bridesmaid. I have my 3 sisters and 2 cousins apart of my bridal party. I know they’re all super excited and money isn’t an...

Meghan, Apr 12, 2021 5 469
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Sandy feet from beach ceremony
Erica, on April 11, 2021 at 10:35 AM

Hi brides! We are doing a beach wedding & it’s always been my dream to be barefoot, toes in the sand! I will be wearing shoes for the reception & need a way for me, the bridal party &...

Erica, Apr 12, 2021 12 986
K
Postponed..again
Kate, on April 11, 2021 at 10:26 PM

Here I am postponing my wedding for a 3rd time, and feeling really discouraged and less excited about the whole thing. We got engaged summer of 2019, planned and have paid for a wedding that was...

Kate, Apr 12, 2021 5 578
C
Asking vendors to include covid-19 safety procedures in their contracts
Christine, on March 20, 2021 at 3:45 PM

Hi everyone, I was wondering if anyone having a wedding this year had asked vendors to include covid-19 safety procedures in their contracts. I’ve seen language ranging from requiring vendors to wear...

Vicky, Apr 11, 2021 16 307
Elizabeth
Covid bride: expanding bridal party?
Elizabeth, on April 11, 2021 at 12:38 PM

Hello everyone! I am a COVID bride that was supposed to get married Aug 1, 2020. We postponed to Aug 7, 2021, so we’re 4 months out. My fiancé is adding a few people to his grooms party (new in laws...

Michelle, Apr 11, 2021 4 334
Freya
How to select a good vendor
Freya, on April 11, 2021 at 9:59 AM

How can I select a good vendor form the options given?

Meghan, Apr 11, 2021 5 532 1
Megan
Seating Chart
Megan, on April 10, 2021 at 12:00 PM

I’m getting married February 4th of 2022. That’s really about 10 months away. I’m told (by some) that my seating chart should be made and ordered at least 3 months prior to the wedding, however, how...

whirlwind, Apr 11, 2021 6 1,335
Mari
Brides who postponed... Guest Lists and Invitations??
Mari, on December 30, 2020 at 10:18 AM

Hi y'all! As is the common adage, I was a June 2020 bride and we made the decision last March to postpone to June 2021. So 6 months out I am picking the wedding planning baton back up. Thankfully the...

Camille, Apr 11, 2021 7 254 3
Francesca
Fiance miserable the whole time.
Francesca, on April 10, 2021 at 11:55 PM

So we've been together 10 yrs. We had found out I was pregnant 4 years ago but that wasn't really something we planned. He then became super negative about the pregnancy, we never had a happy moment...

Meghan, Apr 11, 2021 4 915
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