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covid brides
Bb, on April 19, 2021 at 1:03 PM

I'm getting married in Lake Tahoe & so far, they are allowing 175 people to get married (supposed to go to 200 by June!!!) How is everyone else's state going so far? I get married July 30th and...

Erin, Apr 19, 2021 9 488
Lakeisha
something old new borrowed n blue
Lakeisha, on April 18, 2021 at 8:43 AM

I normally have everything planned out and thought out.. But this tradition Something oldSomething newSomething borrowedSomething blue..Being that it's the 21st century how are all my brides to be...

Jessyca, Apr 19, 2021 10 665
Fabi
Wedding in San Miguel
Fabi, on April 17, 2021 at 6:50 AM

Hi everyone, my fiancé and I are thinking of a wedding in San Miguel de Allende, Mexico and we would like some feedback. If you got married there, what venue and how much do you spend? Would you...

Lynnie, Apr 19, 2021 1 685
Emily
Tips for summer weddings?
Emily, on April 18, 2021 at 3:35 PM

Would love to hear all your tips for outdoor summer weddings. I’m getting married in August in Oregon, which is usually pretty nice, but there’s also the rare chance of a rainy day OR a scorching hot...

Eniale, Apr 19, 2021 9 364
doukakis3
Conflicted on who to pick for bridesmaids
doukakis3, on April 19, 2021 at 2:24 PM

Hi all. I’m conflicted between two ladies in my bridal party. One if them (“M”) is a friend from college who asked me to be one of her 6 bridesmaids. I’m not as close to her as my other friends but I...

SLY, Apr 19, 2021 7 553
Jadine
What address?
Jadine, on April 18, 2021 at 9:52 AM

My hubs and I are getting married at the end of October. It is time to send out our save the dates but we are moving in 2 months! Should we put our new address on the envelopes

SLY, Apr 19, 2021 8 142
Maria
Timeline Mistake
Maria, on April 17, 2021 at 2:35 PM

Hi everyone. Our ceremony is going to be at 3 o’clock, and last until about 3:30, if not before. Afterwards will be cocktail hour for the guests, while we have bridal pictures taken. It completely...

Maria, Apr 19, 2021 10 732
Kelsey
Introverted Groom Catholic Wedding
Kelsey, on April 16, 2021 at 5:03 PM

My fiancé is very introverted and has voiced many concerns about the wedding and reception. We are having a Catholic wedding in a church and he is really nervous about standing up in front of people....

Lady, Apr 19, 2021 6 747 1
Mayra
Bridesmaids
Mayra, on April 18, 2021 at 10:19 PM

How to decide who to be your braidsmaids? When you've always done everything alone? 🤔🤔

Katie, Apr 19, 2021 10 738
Dana P
Hide the Bride?
Dana P, on May 4, 2015 at 12:55 PM

My ceremony venue is set pretty far back on the grass and im trying to figure out a way to get to the aisle without anyone seeing me. I was looking into the parasol idea where all the bridesmaids hold...

Taylor, Apr 19, 2021 32 2,577
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Eloping? Kind of? Is this a bad idea...
Jaclyn, on April 15, 2021 at 12:55 PM

MY FH and I got engaged mid-March. He is about to graduate from medical school and start his residency, the first year of which will be in a city about 5 hours away before he moves back home to finish...

Judith, Apr 19, 2021 14 755
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How far ahead of time to ask flower girls/jr bridesmaids?
Carissa, on April 18, 2021 at 12:36 AM

We are recently engaged so we haven't even formally asked the bridesmaids/groomsmen, but we're preparing to do that soon. I want to ask my cousins daughters to be FG and Jr BM (she's 11 so too old to...

Judith, Apr 18, 2021 7 579
Milada
October 17, 2021 Brides
Milada, on April 17, 2021 at 6:22 PM

We're officially six months out! Ahhh! How's your planning coming along so far - are you just about done, not even close to finished, etc??

Milada, Apr 18, 2021 15 515 1
Nicole
Is "wedding Planning Depression" normal?
Nicole, on April 16, 2021 at 5:07 PM

BUMMER ALERT!! This isn't fun!! Any other future Brides out there feel like throwing in the towel on the whole "dream wedding". I feel so overwhelmed when it comes to anything about the day. It use to...

Michelle, Apr 18, 2021 8 1,114
Nicole
Save the date help
Nicole, on April 18, 2021 at 12:55 PM

I need help creating my save the date

AJ, Apr 18, 2021 4 323
Alyse
Day of coordinator
Alyse, on April 15, 2021 at 10:05 PM

Hello 👋🏽! I’m getting married in December and thinking of having a day of coordinator. Have any of you used one? If so what were your experiences? Also if you haven’t, how did you minimize stress on...

Mrs.a, Apr 18, 2021 18 242 1
DeJohnna
Can a family member or friend marry us in Virginia? How?
DeJohnna, on January 25, 2017 at 8:01 AM

My fiancé and I would like to have a family member or friend marry us. How would they go about getting the authority to do so in Virginia?

Aaron, Apr 18, 2021 22 14,516
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Guests invited later
Heather, on April 14, 2021 at 8:30 PM

I'm having some serious problems with guests. We have 80 people invited. As of right now it looks like at least 10 won't be coming. Should I send out extra invites? Does that offend people? Like we...

Fred, Apr 18, 2021 28 1,344
CountryBride
When to send out our save the dates
CountryBride, on April 17, 2021 at 10:02 AM

I have never done this before our wedding is a year from Friday. 85percent of our guests are coming from out of town. Do we send every person a save a date? or is it one per adult in family?

Jasmine S., Apr 17, 2021 6 572
Maltese
Programs, how to distribute?
Maltese, on May 6, 2015 at 9:23 AM

Basically this is just a post to push back the spam.... I've got two options for the programs right now... 1. Set them on a table just inside the doors of the church 2. Let my 25 year old sister feel...

, Apr 17, 2021 19 995
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