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Personal attendants flowers
Nicole, on October 6, 2019 at 9:16 PM

What is the norm for personal attendants. Do they get bouquets, corsages, or no flowers at all?

Breanne, Apr 17, 2021 4 935
Amanda
Seating a complicated and drama-inflicted family.
Amanda, on April 16, 2021 at 8:07 PM

My wedding is in November. Yes, I have a TON of time to pass before I even need to start thinking about a seating chart. Eventually, that time will come and I'm heavily dreading it. We're sending out...

Cyndy, Apr 17, 2021 5 853
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Deposit back on "state Cancelled" wedding
, on April 16, 2021 at 11:57 PM

hi friends. need advice/guidance/gut check. my wedding was scheduled in CA during SIP almost a year ago for next month, then we decided to cancel/ postpone indefinitely and elope. questions about...

Katie, Apr 17, 2021 3 775
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Night-time Wedding: How Late is too Late?
Alexis, on March 9, 2019 at 9:38 PM

Hey, guys! I'm in the process of wedding planning and I've always dreamed of a night-time wedding (under the stars, twinkle lights galore, the whole nine yards). I've been doing research and found...

Kara, Apr 17, 2021 11 3,515
Rose
Minted or Zola wedding website?
Rose, on November 6, 2019 at 4:42 PM

Has anyone used minted or Zola for their wedding website? They seem very similar I just can’t choose between the two. I have to get my stds printed in a few days. Both will allow you to have a custom...

Jasmine, Apr 16, 2021 12 1,807 1
Maggie
Event Designer vs Event Planner?
Maggie, on April 16, 2021 at 6:07 AM

Hi everyone! Have any of you used an event designer with or without an event planner? I'm getting really stuck on what I want my event to look like and I'm hoping for someone who can point me in the...

Liz, Apr 16, 2021 3 770
Liz
Entrance song
Liz, on April 15, 2021 at 3:52 PM

Holy moly the hardest part of wedding planning for me has been picking out music. I think I’m finally getting it nailed but keep guessing reception entrance song. We have a small wedding party so just...

Lynnie, Apr 16, 2021 3 522
Jessie
Using Uber for wedding transportation?
Jessie, on April 16, 2021 at 11:21 AM

Our venue originally had lofts attached to them, but due to C19, they're not resuming business. So we are no longer getting ready at the same place as our venue. We're now getting a cute Airbnb which...

Ariel, Apr 16, 2021 5 664 1
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Let's talk about grooms involved in planning
Fred, on March 29, 2021 at 2:49 PM

Hi everyone! I'm a groom, but from what I read on WW, I'm untraditional 😀: I LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOVE discuss wedding planning, wedding day here and "in real life" with my FW, as much as she does...

Fred, Apr 16, 2021 47 2,832
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i found my photographer!
TrudiAnn, on April 12, 2021 at 9:41 PM

I’m so pumped guys! When did you decide to start your wedding planning? Getting married June 2023.

TrudiAnn, Apr 16, 2021 5 160
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i just keep crying
Michelle, on April 15, 2021 at 9:13 AM

Anyone else cry when they think about getting married.. in a good way. My wedding is 9 days away and this morning i am finalizing all vows and speeches and i just keep crying hahahaha. I think the...

Chloe, Apr 15, 2021 40 976 3
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Rsvps!!!!
Erika, on April 14, 2021 at 3:03 PM

I would like to have guests RSVP via our WeddingWire website to save on money. Is it tacky to put the website on the back of the invite saying to RSVP via there? Or should I just do a standard RSVP...

Angela, Apr 15, 2021 26 966
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Updating invites with covid date change
Laurissa, on April 15, 2021 at 1:46 PM

We were originally supposed to be married 8/9/20, but due to COVID we pushed it back to 8/8/21. I don’t want to pay for a whole new set of invitations so trying to figure out how to update the date...

Sharonda, Apr 15, 2021 11 496
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Vegas elopement and a hometown reception??
Ashley, on April 13, 2021 at 1:17 PM

Hi, Recently engaged!! We have been together for 10years, two kids, home. Already married pretty much. We wanna save money. (Currently renovating a house). Vegas seems like a great cost effective less...

Lynnie, Apr 15, 2021 3 380
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Send off
Ashley, on April 15, 2021 at 2:24 PM

Did anyone do a send off even if there staying at the venue for that night? Even though i would love to have a sparkler send off I feel awkward having it if I’m just walking around the side back to...

Meghan, Apr 15, 2021 10 614
Jacqueline
One month away!!
Jacqueline, on April 14, 2021 at 2:35 PM

So we are at 30 days out to the big day! Woohoo, super excited to become his wife. I have my last fitting this weekend and my bridesmaids are just finishing up too. FH and his groomsmen are getting...

Jacqueline, Apr 15, 2021 4 557
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Bride Subscription Box - Yay or Nay?
Kylee, on October 14, 2020 at 3:01 PM

So our wedding is 2 years away and I've seen a couple of brides suggest getting a bridal subscription box just for fun. I was planning to just get 1 or 2 boxes since getting a whole years worth of...

Carole, Apr 15, 2021 11 605
Jaclyn
Photography
Jaclyn, on April 13, 2021 at 11:18 AM

Hi all! Just booked my date, venue and almost my DJ yay! Photography is so expensive - I am trying to process what is a "good deal" for photography. What have you figured out? Is it usually...

Hanna, Apr 15, 2021 7 657
Sarah
Songs???
Sarah, on April 15, 2021 at 7:07 AM

Y'all... I'm deep in the wedding planning process and all my vendors are asking me about SONG choices. I have very little opinion honestly, and my FH is good with just whatever I want 🤷🏼‍♀️ I have a...

Michelle, Apr 15, 2021 3 611
Kristin
dj advice
Kristin, on April 14, 2021 at 6:19 PM

So we originally booked a DJ because they were suggested by our caterer and gave us cheaper rates due to that relationship. Working with him wasn’t the easiest (he called me the wrong name once and...

Kristin, Apr 15, 2021 6 648
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