Discussions from Planning

Hello, Is it appropriate to request RSVP on a save the date ? Not looking to spend money on save the dates and invitations and wanted advice on whether or not it would be tacky to send save the dates...

Hello There! After I get married I am moving to Northern Virginia. FH's home state. I am extremely nervous but I am also ready to start my new life. Is anyone else moving? How are you feeling about...

So we are thinking about having a April Fools Day wedding. Has anyone ever been to one? Was it cheesy? We are a fun couple and could take the jokes and maybe make some throughout the wedding.

Because it determines when to have rsvps due and invites sent, what is the time frame before the wedding that your caterer has specified they need the final headcount or they won’t be able to work?...

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Hi everyone I just wanted to sort of vent/get advice, I don't really have anyone to talk to about wedding stuff. To start off, I'm supposed to get married this October. It was going to be last October...

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My fiancé bought my ring as a size 6 and 3/4 but I really need like an 8. I've been able to squeeze myself into it but I think it's really time to have it resized. I have a lot of issues with swelling...

I got engaged months ago and shortly after my MOH and a bridesmaid both told me they’re each trying to get pregnant. I wouldn’t care if they’re pregnant at the wedding except both have to travel in....

So I knew from the start I would design my own stationery and paper goods for our wedding. I've done it for years for all kinds of parties I've had. During the STD designs I found Canva and man it is...

I have my best friend who has never been apart of a wedding and then I have a new close friend who has been apart of weddings and is dating Jacob’s best friend. I wanted to have both of them be maids...

Hey, so I plan on asking my bridal party to be in my wedding at the end of the year. So I have some time. I am waiting a while to save money and to spend a little each paycheck. The proposal I plan on...

Any brides with 5,000-10,000 budget? What are you excluding to save money and what are you keeping?

Alright ladies, I'm looking for some out of the box thinking here. I've just started planning and I'm not feeling spending $15k+ on wedding/reception (food, chairs, dj, photographer, etc). I've...

Sorry if this is long and drawn out. A little backstory I’m 33, my fiancé is 34. We are financially dependent and actually both work two jobs. We have been together for 2.5 years living together for...

Has anyone gotten a “thank you” card from their vendors. I’m slightly frustrated that none of my vendors thanked after the wedding. Not even a simple text. I have gotten an auto generated one and at...

Hi everyone. So glad to have forums like this! Me and my fiancé are newly engaged and I’m really just wanting a small intimate ceremony and maybe a small venue for 30 ppl max somewhere in NYC. I love...

Looking for a little advice here or just a rant. I reached out to a hotel to set up a Hotel Block for the night of our wedding, I called the hotel and they gave me the number of the woman in their...

So I am needing an affordable gift idea for guests to take home. I was thinking a candy station for guests to fill up a goody bag but with Covid and kiddos I think that might be a no. I also want it...