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Just Said Yes August 2023

Two Maid of Honors?

Sadie, on January 17, 2022 at 8:50 PM Posted in Planning 0 18
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I have my best friend who has never been apart of a wedding and then I have a new close friend who has been apart of weddings and is dating Jacob’s best friend. I wanted to have both of them be maids of honor because I think both balance each other out. Has anyone had two maids of honor?

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Latest activity by Pinazarret, on January 20, 2022 at 7:05 AM
  • Cece
    Master November 2022
    Cece ·
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    Yes, you can absolutely have 2 MOH‘s! It is actually becoming common! I am going to have a maid of honor and a man of honor 😊
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  • Michelle
    Rockstar December 2022
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    You can. But some people see it as invalidating the “of honor” aspect if you have more than one person sharing a special title. How many other bridesmaids do you have? Would it be off balance?
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  • Sadie
    Just Said Yes August 2023
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    Right now I have five. I haven’t officially asked anyone so I can always add more.
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  • Sadie
    Just Said Yes August 2023
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    I love that!!
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  • Sarah
    Savvy May 2022
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    I have 2 right now. One is my cousin who is like a sister and lives on the west coast when I’m in Connecticut. The other is a childhood best friend where our mothers and grandmothers were friends for generations.
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  • Tyff
    Dedicated July 2022
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    I have co MOH - my sister who was promised since we were teens and my best friend. I added my best friend for a number of reasons and I’m super happy to have them both cos they do balance each other out. My sister doesn’t really like my fiancé, didn’t want me to have his sisters as bridesmaids and has decided she’s planning the bachelorette without any input from me- my friend is the opposite so I will enjoy my wedding a lot more with her there to balance decision making. Lesson learned: DONT go into MOH pacts!
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  • Caitlin
    Dedicated January 2023
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    I have two! One is my sister and the other my best friend since middle school. I was/will be co-moh for both their weddings as well actually so it works out well! I have 5 maids total so the other 3 are my future in sisters in law
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  • Eula
    Just Said Yes June 2022
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    My friend had her two sisters as maid of honor, and they enjoyed planning their younger sisters wedding together and bonded over it. In my wedding I have a matron of honor and a maid of honor. Smiley smile

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  • Ebony
    Just Said Yes July 2023
    Ebony ·
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    Great ideal, I'm actually gonna have 3... 😊🥰 Matron Of Honor, Man of Honor & Maid Of Honor!
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  • Jacks
    Champion November 2054
    Jacks ·
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    2 maids of honour is fine, but I would wait until 6 months prior to the wedding to ask anyone. There are so many posts with people regretting earlier choices. Nothing has to be done until 6 months before when they need to look at attire for the day.

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  • S
    Beginner December 2022
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    I have two as well!! I asked my sister to be my matron of honor and i asked my best friend to be my maid of honor

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  • Grace
    Just Said Yes September 2022
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    I’m having 3 maids of honor Smiley smile it’s your wedding- do what you want!
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  • Portia
    Just Said Yes October 2022
    Portia ·
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    Hello & Good Evening,

    I plan on having two Matron's of Honor. My best friend of 30 years (friends since 1988) as well as my sister. They both had beautiful weddings and could offer me some suggestions.

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  • bevbabe
    Devoted June 2023
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    I had a matron and maid of honor at my first wedding and it was great. I don't think there's anything wrong with having two maids of honor. I know some (immature) people get jealous when someone has more than one best friend. That's the only time I think it would cause an issue.

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  • Tyff
    Dedicated July 2022
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    Lol how did you do that? Just dividing the diluted would have driven me nuts! Hahahaha
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  • Grace
    Just Said Yes September 2022
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    Lol I have 3 very close best friends who have all been in my life since before grade school! Too hard to pick one as I love them all equally. Having all 3 be my “bridesmaids of honor”. Smiley smile
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  • Alicia
    Just Said Yes October 2022
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    I am having my bestfriend and my daughter as a Jr.

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  • CountryBride
    VIP April 2022
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    I have my best friend and my sister
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