Discussions from Planning

Let me start with I LOVE the staff at my venue, from the time we booked with them everyone we have worked with has been so helpful and responsive! When we booked with them, they gave us a sheet of all...

So - my wife and I (we're lesbian) have been married for 9 years, but we had a civil elopement with no family or friends present (we married civilly in another state pre-Obergefell decision, and could...

I feel so out of place in most of these forums. I'm looking for my tribe to discuss planning ideas. I'm not so concerned about typical wedding things or what the majority considers the right way to do...

I hired a photographer and I’ve hired them for everything an all in one inclusive package. Engagement, bridal, wedding, and video. Do I need to tip every time or can I just do one big thank you at the...

Vague title. Yes. Lol. My fiancé and I would like to include the names of all of our guests on our invitations. We don’t want any invitations to say “and guest.” So, we are thinking of texting any...

My fiancé has always wanted a small elopement (just me and him) and I’ve always wanted a big wedding. So we started weighing the option of him and I getting secretly married a month or two before the...

Getting married on 9/25/22? Say Hello 😊

I’m getting married April 9, 2022!

Anyone else feeling overwhelmed???

Hello future brides, I’m currently very emotional about not having a Maid of Honor at my wedding. My best friend is grieving the death of her daughter and everyone else has a lot of responsibilities...

When we started planning I didn’t want a wedding party (wanted to save myself the headache) But, Britany did. I compromised. Told her we’d both have ONE person. My sister as MOH, one of her best...

Is anyone else just freaking out that it’s coming to an end and you keep realizing so many things you haven’t done

I was reading through the forums on Reddit wedding planning..various topics. One of the threads said that nearly all the brides there who had a micro wedding or small guest count under 50 said they...

Are these necessary? Can they be sent via text instead of mailed? We did STDs via text, I assume this can be sent out the same way?

Has anyone done a small ceremony/elopement and then done a nice dinner with more people to celebrate after? I’m considering doing that instead of a traditional wedding but I’m not sure how that would...

Hello lovely people. My wedding is June 18 this year, so about 4 weeks out (yay!) Unfortunately, our rental company had some crazy company issues and the gist of it is that they are completely...

Hello everyone! How are you?

I am a month away from our wedding and i have alot of emotions on top of stress of making sure everything is done right and how i would like it. Has anyone else had such high levels of stress months...

For wedding planning, how have you vetted vendors to make sure they are good/legit? Also, what resources have you used? Thank you!