Discussions from Planning

FH and I have been going to trivia night on Monday nights at a bar near us since we started dating. Our DJ for our wedding is the trivia host (he owns his own company and also does weddings, too!)...

I know our photographers said October is a busy month and so far it seems like it’s taking them 2 weeks to post sneak peaks on social media and blog posts. I was wondering for anyone else here how...

Ugh, I just want to elope! If I could have it my way, it would be me and my fiancé, our two witnesses/best man and matron of honor, and maybe both sets of parents, and that's a solid maybe. I never...

Hi friends, So we are planning our wedding "celebratory" ceremony and reception and as usual I am getting myself confused with being all over the place and not narrowing down options. Background: we...

O.M.G so excited 😊 only me my BF and sister in law know!!!

Hello I am Jissell the Bride to be. I have been dreaming of a Renaissance wedding in a rustic Barn and Cottage setting. I have found the potential site in Upstate Ny. Very slim options out there with...

We have decided to start our ceremony at 3 and my caterer recommended that I put 2:30 on my invitations so that people will have time to arrive and be seated before the actual ceremony begins. Is this...

Need help please am getting married

So I'm not sure who all else spends time scrolling through TikTok, but I saw one the other day that had an idea that struck me as rather interesting. This bride was getting married in a spot where the...

I am trying to have my save the dates contain a “no” only rsvp on the card sent out so we can have a more accurate count on actual invites and guest list for the wedding. how would I put that on my...

Another post got me thinking about societal pressure and how we are influenced. If you are older and having a first, second, or third marriage, do you feel pressured to have a bigger or more lavish...

Has anyone used or will be using an out of state photographer for your wedding event? What was your experience and who did you use?

We got engaged Dec 4, 2022. We’ve told our friends and family in person but are waiting to make an “official” social media announcement after we get our engagement photos (currently planning on the...

I’m getting married and only have about 10 people. I’m going to a courthouse and the area I’m in doesn’t have nice restaurants in site. I want my family to be there however they are traveling 2-3 hrs...

Hi everyone! I think I finally found the venue I've been looking for! It's a YMCA summer camp in northern MN. I wanted it to be all in the middle of the woods and this is a dream come true! We get the...

I am getting married October 1st 2023, but to be honest I could have this wedding in two months by the way I’m planning. I just got engaged 2 months ago and I have all of my vendors, my bridal party,...

My real name is Anastasia, but I go by Stacie. Very few people on my FH's side know that, as well as our large mutual friend group. Maybe 25-50% of the guest list would know. Anyhow - what should I...

Hey everyone, I just wonder ıf ı can handle with the anxiety about my wedding day. I want it to be perfect as ı dreamed. Is there anyone who already dealed with it. I need some advice.

Hello ladies! I just got engaged 12/10! While we want to wait until after the holidays to start planning I still find myself doing research (mostly at work ) and unsure where we should start. I'm...