So, i have a childhood best friend since before birth! Our mothers went to highschool together. She moved 4 hours away for school and ended up staying out there. My issue is that i always planned on her having the title of being my maid of honor except a few problems that are on my mind and i need help!
1. She lives 4 hours away
2. She is a maid of honor the same exact year that we plan on gettin married already. 3. Everytime i try to make plans with her just to catch up and see eachother its always a hassle or she ends up canceling on the plans! I have asked her in the past before i even got engaged that id love to have her as my MOH but im always worried that she wouldnt pull through for me and she always says that would. End result it is a big title to have and i dont want it to affect my mood as a bride and ruin the experience having a MOH. But at the same time i want to give it a try but im NERVOUS. I am not having a big bridal party. I wanted to have a MOH and one bridesmaid being my closest two friends. My other question is can she financially handle being a brides maid for two girls around the same month of the same year?… idk how to talk to her about it or bring it up!! Help!
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