Okay, so I have made the decision to have and adult flower girl and ring bearer. not for lack of having nieces and nephews, between my FH and I, we've got two nephews and six nieces, it honestly beats having to choose which kid lol. the kids are all coming to the wedding of course, but we just wanted to be a little different so a dear friend of ours, who will be 18 by the time of the wedding, is our flower girl, and one of his best friends is the ringbearer. Is this weird? lol or would you find it funny to see grown folks in roles usually for kids?