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I'm getting married in September. Wedding party has been selected and picked five guys whose weddings I was in. I have a sister and it's been hard to think of meaningful ways to include in her without...

September brides, we're a month-ish away from our big days! What things do you still have to get done this month? -We've got RSVP deadline coming up, so then tracking down missing responses -Final...

Any tips or suggestions on negotiating costs with hotel venues for menu and bar options? Hidden costs to watch out for, or things they can include which don't cost them very much, etc? Any help will...

So I'm on a really strict budget of 10,000 dollars and I would rather just make food myself and have it for my guest but all the venues I've found required their own catering. Has anyone had a wedding...

Has anyone used a QR Code for their RSVP? What are your thoughts, likes/dislikes? Pros/Cons? Does it help better with organization? Or is it more a hassle? Thanks!

We picked a venue and it’s a huge relief. Nowhere we visited had excellent food, and all were country club kind of uninspired vibes so we ended up choosing one that’s very close to home (right up the...

Did you all also deal with the majority of your RSVP's coming in at the very last minute? We have our RSVP's due Feb. 4th, which I know is still a week and a half away, but we've only had maybe a...

My fiancé and I are wanting to get married in either the spring or fall of 2025. Anyone have any ideas of when we should start planning (considering i would be doing most it since he doesn’t really...

We plan on inviting 190 guests to our wedding. I'm guessing about 150 will end up coming, since there is a decent amount of people we're inviting who are out of state. So far we have room blocks at...

Just checking to see where everyone's at! I'm currently trying to hunt down a videographer and hair person. Apparently my wedding date is a hot date and all the good vendors are taken. 😅 How's...

If you eloped or are planning to, I’m just curious what led you to that decision?

How many of you feel wedding favors for your guests are a mandatory thing, like your guests are actually expecting one? I personally have a drawer full of them. Hardly like any of them.

How much is reasonable for a room in a wedding room block? I don't want to price people out but I also don't want to choose rundown accomodations.

Hello and congrats to all of y'all! what does everyone have done at this point? 🤪 so far we have picked a venue and photographer!

I’ve been looking nonstop for venues in the Houston area that I LOVE. I originally wanted a destination wedding but my Fiancé was not a fan of the idea, I decided to compromise and find something that...

Hi ladies!! I feel like I am so far behind on planning because I did not to a single wedding thing in the month of December.(I need to hand on the forehead emoji). Anyways, I have a question..are you...

I have a question....being in December few weeks before Christmas....what are yall color ideas? I don't want it to be anything close to Christmas (green and red).

My husband only has 2 groomsmen and 1 best man. I'm not sure what to do? Should I ask another person to be part of my bridesmaids? It would be different if I had many but I only had 2. Any tips or...

Idk how to go about it but I wanna plan a little mermaid themed wedding and my hubby is fine with it but idk where to start