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LolliPOP
Super May 2017

No One Showed Up To The Bridal Shower!!

LolliPOP, on February 15, 2017 at 7:32 AM

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I'm going to call the former friend 'Daisy' so you can keep up. Me and Daisy have been friends for 6 years. She recently reunited with a previous lover and they started dating. She randomly announced that they were getting married only after dating for literally 6 weeks. She asked me to be her maid...

I'm going to call the former friend 'Daisy' so you can keep up. Me and Daisy have been friends for 6 years. She recently reunited with a previous lover and they started dating. She randomly announced that they were getting married only after dating for literally 6 weeks. She asked me to be her maid of honor. I gladly accepted the honor and because they planned to get married in December (she announced it in August) I immediately started planning her Bridal shower! Her guest list went from 20 to 85 people. I ordered a catering company, tables and chairs rental, paid for floral arrangements for the centerpieces, hired a photographer and bought all the champagne and decoration. In October she called me asking if I could pick her up she was stranded. I went to get her and while waiting at the light, I saw a man in a suit and a woman in a long flowy white gown crossing the street. They went to the courthouse to get married! So they get in the car, continued in comment section

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  • 2B_Mrs.J.T.
    VIP September 2017
    2B_Mrs.J.T. ·
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    You said you shared bits and pieces of the story on a post or two? Do you mean here on WW or on facebook?

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  • Brenda
    Super September 2017
    Brenda ·
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    That's fucked up. I'd go to small claims court lol

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  • TheWrightGirl
    Super November 2017
    TheWrightGirl ·
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    I would be actively looking for Daisy to beat her raggedy ass. I'm so sorry you had to deal with that situation.

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  • OG Kathryn
    Champion May 2016
    OG Kathryn ·
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    The more I think about it I find it odd not one person that RSVP'd to you called to find out what was going on? That everyone, all 65, got the FB message it was canceled.

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  • SuYa
    Master April 2017
    SuYa ·
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    What a horrible person. I would not want her in my life anymore. Sorry OP but she is not a true friend.

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  • SAK2SAH
    Super October 2017
    SAK2SAH ·
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    Omg. What type of person does that!!???? That's lower than low.

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  • M
    Super May 2016
    Mal-Pal ·
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    @Phil it's not ok. I have no problem going to a Celebration of Marriage (basically a wedding but they're already married) and will still give a gift when I know they're already married but if someone lies and implies they're not I feel...well...lied to.

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  • Paige
    VIP March 2017
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    What a god-awful person. How can she face herself in the mirror everyday?!? And I wonder what she told everyone that had actually been invited to the shower? That you flaked? Dropped the ball? What the fuck?!? I would hunt her down and demand, at the very least, and explanation, if not a refund (preferably full, but in part, at the very least) for the expense you shelled out.

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  • MrsRidley
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    I would take her ass to court.

    ETA: I posted before I had read the thread in its entirety. Okay, so this sounds really crazy. Like how haven't you heard from ONE person that RVSP'd? How sway? How did she just bounce and you not know nothing about it, especially since you supposedly talked two days prior? It just doesn't add up all the way.

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  • OG Kathryn
    Champion May 2016
    OG Kathryn ·
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    YOu cant just take someone to court because they canceled a party you hosted.

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  • Blair Waldorf
    Master October 2017
    Blair Waldorf ·
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    My vote if for judge judy

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  • ELK
    Master March 2018
    ELK ·
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    This makes no sense.

    There were 10 bridesmaids and they shared the cost with you? They had no idea she cancelled? They don't care?


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  • MrsMelissaP
    VIP January 2017
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    Wait, you invited 85 people to her bridal shower?????

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  • Rachel DellaPorte
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    Well, she might not be able to sue the bride, but if the other BMs entered into a verbal contract to split the costs of the shower, she might have a case there. If she has text messages in which they actually discussed the costs and how they were going to be divided, then she's got it in writing, which is even better. Even if the BMs say the bride cancelled the shower, it was clearly done with malice. It just seems unfathomable that she's left holding the bag here.

    And I agree Blair Waldorf -- I love to see Judge Judy take this one on. What I love about her is that doesn't allow for editorializing -- it's all yes and no answers, and that's the only way to get to the truth.

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  • MrsMelissaP
    VIP January 2017
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    That's horrific though. I hope she has a ton of karma coming her way.

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  • OG Kathryn
    Champion May 2016
    OG Kathryn ·
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    Originally it only sounded like one BM contributed?

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  • ELK
    Master March 2018
    ELK ·
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    Page 7 OP said: "The bridesmaids split the cost of the cupcakes and catering bill. Out of 10 of is [sic]."

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  • Alicia v.
    Super March 2017
    Alicia v. ·
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    What the hell!!! Honestly that's the worst thing I've heard in a long time. I'm so sorry that happened

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  • OG Kathryn
    Champion May 2016
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    OH then, again it makes no sense at all that not one person contacted her.

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  • MrsRidley
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    OGK, that's what I was just thinking. This doesn't make sense to me either.

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