No food wedding?

Looking over shoulder... huh?

Is not ok? i no this site for good. LOL. thanks for help. You are smart, I must learn. You will teach.

She better or else she's no longer the BFF!!!

@Mrs. Baby-B - LOL no she isn't that cheap. She will be doing a buffet style dinner and cupcakes instead of a bridal cake but will have a groom's cake. She is doing the sundae buffet for fun like some do a candy bar. And (in reference to the candy bar) no that isn't her favors

Lmao at hayley. Yes, I did sign. And I remember that little exchange with your thoughtful diagrams. "You go bye bye now"

...but will there be Cheesey poofs, Glenn??

Damn, the trolls come out at night, eh? No more feeding them kraft dinner after midnight.

I can't believe how crazy people are...sorry i even asked thought we were all grown ups...so rude and hurtful

I did the math, if you trully have nine years until you marry then you could put away like $25 a month and you will have $2700 for food!

Damn, she didn't even call us bitches yet. Better try harder.

Sooo emo though.

Well if you could clarify what you really meant maybe people would be more inclined to help

@Sarah C. Whew........ Girl.. Ok it's all good! LOL I'm doing buffet and cupcakes w/ a small tier on top! And I've been contemplating a "Sweets Table"

Tell you friend. I like her idea

First thing, is you wedding really January of 2020? if so, and i dont mean to be rude because i dont know your financial situation, but couldn't u put a little aside every month to save up for the htings you would like? 8.5 yrs is a good bit of time to save and plan and finance everything you want!

There are always cheese poofs at my parties!

Hubby's grandma told me she'd bring some "cheese toes" camping with us, she eats WEIRD crap (like puts hooves in her stew) so I thought she meant literal cheese toes!!

Somebody please enlighten me....WTH is a "Troll"?

Lisa ~ read the sticky post at the top of the discussion page.

Abbreviations, page 3

or google "internet troll"

@Mrs. Baby-B NP I will tell her. I like her idea too but I can't fit it in my budget. She has more time to save for it.

@ Sarah C. you see my keyword contemplating a sweets bar lol!! I totally understand, But my guests will eat lots of food!!

@ Glenn you have your cheese puffs !! I'm having Cheese Doodles.

@Claire k.- There have been mmaaannnnnnnnnny "trolls" lately, new "fake" accounts that have been posting lately.. dates that are far, far away like 9 years is usually a trait of those fake accounts so that is why there is suspicion here, but don't take it personal if you are just being honest..

But in all honesty, your date is very far away, so if it is money that you are concerned about, I wouldn't cut the food altogether but find ways to save money instead like making your own decorations, finding a dress on sale or lightly used, or finding ways to save money by cutting down on eating out, bad habits, or whatever...

You can also save money by not offering a full dinner, but serving appetizers or small buffet (which is what I will be doing).

You can also cut back with your venue, either find a venue that includes a lot of items like tables, llinens and decor like a "value pack" or by using a state park where rental fees are dirt cheap and have beautiful scenery.

Cheese poofs? Walmart has big containers of cheese balls for about $4.97

Or wait till Christmas and stock up on those large tins of popcorn! At least then they would have a variety to pick from - butter, cheese or caramel.

How are you doing to do your smores? Are you going to have guests roast them over a small candle?

How about PB & J sandwiches? Is that in your budget? Cheez Its?

2020 is your wedding year --- you should be able to save to get everything you want and will need to make your wedding a very nice one and that includes having a REAL meal for your guests, lots of drinking, etc.

@Kristina B. You have me in here LMAO! I thought about the smores thing too. Thinking are they going to be camping?

How about ditch the cupcakes and get fruit cake all the left over fruit cake from Walmart during Christmas!