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Jillian
Expert August 2011

My mom said it doesn't look like a wedding dress???

Jillian, on February 7, 2011 at 3:03 PM Posted in Wedding Attire 0 42

I found this new style at David's Bridal and loved how it fit on my body (after trying about 14 dresses) and the simplicity of it. My mom thinks it doesn't look like a wedding dress, though. I bought it because it doesn't look like every other wedding dress you see and I'm going to add some sparkle with jewelry and a hair clip, but for some reason I feel unsettled...

What do you think? Does it look like a bridal gown or is my mom just in another time zone (mind you, she's the one who wanted me to be all sparkly and cinderella-esque, which is the complete opposite of who I am)...


42 Comments

Latest activity by julybride16, on February 8, 2011 at 9:54 PM
  • K
    Master April 2012
    Kimi k. ·
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    Your dress is beautiful! It's very flattering...I think once you get your shoes, hari and jewelry going, your mom will see it the way you do!

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  • Analy aka T-waffle
    Master October 2009
    Analy aka T-waffle ·
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    Your mom is nuts! You look like a bride to me! I think sometimes moms get visions of us in our dresses, and start planning in their heads, just like we do when we are 5. When you are all done up on your wedding day, she will have no doubts. Do what makes you happy, and let her pick her dress, not yours.

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  • Ms. Sunshyne
    Expert November 2011
    Ms. Sunshyne ·
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    The dress looks lovely on you and you're definitely looking like a "bride". I say as long as it's what you want, go for it Smiley smile Congrats!

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  • Carole M (a.k.a "old tart")
    Master October 2011
    Carole M (a.k.a "old tart") ·
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    You look awesome. It is very grecian. Your mother is not making the right call on this one.

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  • Tina
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    Tina ·
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    You absolutely look like a bride and it's very flattering on you. I say go for it.

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  • Jillian
    Expert August 2011
    Jillian ·
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    Oh boy...I hate feeling this way right now. This was the other one I was going back and forth on: Here's my dress:

    http://www.davidsbridal.com/Product_Organza-A-Line-Gown-with-Angled-Draped-Pick-Ups-SWG339_Bridal-Gowns-Shop-By-Silhouette-A-Line

    Do you think I should've gotten this one instead? Ugh.

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  • S
    Master February 2011
    Snif ·
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    I agree with the others. It looks great on you and you'll totally look like a bride. Like Analy said, moms have visions of what we should look like as much as we do.

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  • Edwina
    Master August 2011
    Edwina ·
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    I think it looks like a wedding gown. Once you add some sparkle, I'm sure she'll see it too. You look beautiful.

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  • Jennifer
    Master June 2011
    Jennifer ·
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    Don't second guess yourself! the dress you bought is beautiful! My mom threw a HUGE hissy-fit because I didnt invite her to try on dresses....for that very same reason.....different taste in dresses.

    If you LOVE your dress....then stick with it. Don't let someone else (especially your mom) try to change your mind.

    And for a little bit of humour.....this is the type of dress my mom wanted me to wear. She wanted NO SKIN SHOWING WHATSOEVER. Enjoy!


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  • Mrs. Phillips
    Master September 2011
    Mrs. Phillips ·
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    That is beautiful on you, she probably had the big ball gown look in her head that's all, i'm sure once she sees you all done up she'll change her mind believe me

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  • Edwina
    Master August 2011
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    I Like the dress that you are wearing better. I'm not really a fan of big ball gowns. You want a gown that Showcases your beauty and style and I think you found it.

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  • Kimm
    Master October 2012
    Kimm ·
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    The dress looks great on you, very flattering. You definitely look like a bride. I love that style of dress!!!! It's your dress and your wedding, not your mother's. Do what is right for you.

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  • Mr. Bigglesworth
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    Mr. Bigglesworth ·
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    I think it's absolutely beautiful, and I don't like many dresses all that much. You look fantastic in it and it does make your body look great. Stick with it!

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  • Iguanatan
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    Iguanatan ·
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    Love it, very elegant. You should be your vision on your day- not your mothers! I did not even take my mother dress shopping for this reason!

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  • Thumbelina
    Expert May 2010
    Thumbelina ·
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    It absolutely looks like a wedding dress, and you look like a bride in it! It is flattering, and lovely, and on your wedding day, your mom will see how beautiful and happy you look, and she'll think the same thing....Smiley smile

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  • Christina
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    Christina ·
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    It think its beautiful!!! It is a gorgeous dress, with simple and elegant lines. Your mom is totally in a different time zone, reminder that this is you and your FH wedding, not hers!!!

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  • Mrs♥In♥September
    Master September 2011
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    Go for what you love! If you felt it its your dress and its absolutely beautiful!

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  • Konichiwa
    Master January 2010
    Konichiwa ·
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    It's a beautiful dress! If you love it and it makes you feel beautiful, then wear it! Regardless of what your mom thinks!

    I went with my step-daughter when she picked out her dress, and while she was in the dressing room we asked the store associate if they got a lot of bridezillas in trying on dresses! You know what she said, she said usually the brides aren't the worst, the MOMS are! She said that many times the mothers are very opinionated and vocal and cause more problems because they have a different 'vision' of what the bride should look like. She says she's constantly having to tell the bride that it's her dress NOT her moms!

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  • Sara
    Expert June 2011
    Sara ·
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    Your dress is definitely a wedding dress! In fact it is similar to mine a few ways! It looks amazing on you, I really love that style, flowey and elegant. I told the gal in the dress shop: "I dont want to look like theres more frosting on me than on the cake!" It sounds like thats the look your mom wanted, but oh well!You are beautiful and look like BRIDE!!!

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  • Denise livin on 5
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    Denise livin on 5 ·
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    I really LOVE that dress!!! Its YOUR day... wear what YOU like and what makes YOU feel good.

    To answer your unsettled question: its cause its your Mom who's saying those things to you. We want to have our Moms be just as excited about our dress as we are.

    You'll be beautiful!

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