Keep or Cancel: Sleeping apart the night before the wedding?

Keeping...sorta. We have a large cabin that we and our BM's and GM's will all stay in the night before. But we WILL be sleeping separately and he won't see me the morning of the wedding

Cancel. We live together. We’re 1.5 hours
from home. Let’s not get an extra room

CANCEL, Im renting a huge pool house and the whole wedding party is staying together the night before then we'll go our separate ways the morning of the wedding then meet back up at the alter.

View Quoted Comment Totally agree, we just talked about this too

Keep. We already live together, we are having the rehersal dinner the night before and everyone coming is from out of town. Our venue is 10 minutes from our home. My FH and his brother plan on staying at our home to sleep. I plan on sleeping at the hotel in a room by myself and just being able to have the last night of my pre marriage life to myself to relax and destress.

Definitely cancel! We’ve slept together for the last seven years and wouldn’t change that for the world!

I will be keeping it. We live together so a night apart I think will make us appreciate the next night as man and wife more.

Keep. My FH wants my appearance day of to be a complete surprise. ill be said with my MoH the night before. He hasnt decided if he will stay at home or elsewhere.

Cancel. Living together now

No. Not all styles look good. Similar and same color, si would go with that

Definitely keep.

Keep! It’s just going to be a wonderful feeling to be able to call and say “Goodnight! Sleep well; can’t wait to see you tomorrow and become your wife.” And then go to be bed stressless.

Keep. This keeps the anticipation for the big day high and exciting!

I think we will keep because of the anticipation / excitement!

Keep... i am into alot of the old traditions and I truly believe in this one

Keep, it gives a since of thrill to wait to see each other all day. It allows you to have probably one of the last all girls slumber parties for the rest of you life and you can have girl talk all night you get a lot of your nervous tears out of the way the night before with all of your girls.

Keep! Not only because I like the idea of building anticipation to see each other at the ceremony 🥰, but it works out better for some of his family if I go spend the night with my family then his family can stay all together at our future place.

Btw planning a wedding and moving all in the same time not recommended 😩so stressed right now. Still don’t know if the place will be ready before or after the wedding. I think it’s also holding up a few wedding planning related decisions I haven’t made yet😣.

Keep! Our venue is an hour away from our home so we are staying in a hotel in separate rooms the night before.

Cancel - we have a bridal suite!

I asked my FH this question as we already live together and he surprisingly said yes, we will sleep separately the night before. So he is definitely keeping this tradition.