Keep or Cancel: Sleeping apart the night before the wedding?

Tough one! I'd say Cancel but honestly I haven't even given this a single thought until now. Like others have said, it's convenient, we're not superstitious, and our wedding planning so far has very little traditions to it already. Sleeping apart the day before is at the bottom of my list of priorities.

Keep, If we have somewhere to stay if not then cancel. It’s not a mandatory thing but i do think it’s romantic

View Quoted Comment Amen! Last thing I’m thinking about, what happens, happens!

We will be in separate cabins Traditional

Cancel this just doesn't make since.

Yesss we're spending the night before apart 😂 we're having a destination wedding but we are still keeping that tradition

Since I’m staying at my fisnce’s Parents house where the wedding will be taking place, I have no intention to not sleep with my fiancé the night before. If his parents want to, then I’ll follow their wishes, but I’m not going to do it unless they for some reason want to keep the tradition going.

I wanna keep.. i think it adds more significance and fun to it

Second wedding so im doing away with some stuff. But THIS I'm keeping

I think I might keep it, but not because of tradition. I like the idea of a relaxed girly night in at a hotel with my bridesmaids the night before the wedding.

Cancel! I feel most at ease with him next to me. We live together anyways. Plus we are eloping and would need go pay for two hotel rooms.

We slept apart only because he didn't want to be woken up early when hair and make-up arrived the next morning!

Keep! I’d like to enjoy my last night of not having to sleep on the side of anyone lol

Keep! I'm excited to build the suspense & have some girl time to help with last minute things

Not quite sure yet. We probably will because he's not an early riser and on this day in particular, I want to get up and get to moving. He would probably try to get some morning nookie! LOL

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I was thinking the same thing. But I really don't know. My plan is to have everything done by the night before.

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Jill, I completely understand. However, this is my third go round. If it wasn't for him wanting a wedding (he didn't have a wedding for his first), I would have loved to do it in Vegas, in Jamaica, or even City Hall. But he wants a wedding and I love him enough to go thru with this for the last time!

Cancel. I want my man always

Keep. I think the anticipation will make for fun.

Keep, we are going to use the time to spend with our wedding party and a last minute moment to ourselves.