Keep or Cancel: Sleeping apart the night before the wedding?

Cancel. It’s so much more convenient to just stay at home and there’s no real reason to stay apart.

Keep. We have a complimentary bridal suite for 2 nights from our venue. We might as well use it. I'm going to stay there since my girls and I will be using it to get ready in, along with doing our hair and makeup the next morning. My FH will be staying at our apartment the night before with his groomsmen.

Cancel. We did everything together and I'm not superstitious or anything.

Cancel! We would never choose to spend a night apart if we didn't have to.

Cancel. Hotels cost money and we're not waiting to have sex so it'd be way more annoying than needed.

Probably keep, I’ve been planning to stay with my MOHs and he’ll stay with his BM & GM.

Cancel. We stayed together the night before and have no regrets.

Keep! We are waiting to live together until after we are married!

Keeping this one. My bridesmaids and I are getting ready at a hotel. So I'll stay at the hotel the night before since I already have to be there the next morning.

Cancel! We live together and have a hard time sleeping apart! We will be separating in the morning to get ready

Keep! Not because of religious reasons or anything. I just liked the idea of getting together with all my girls the night before at an Airbnb and getting ready there the next morning. I also liked that it builds the excitement for us for the wedding day

Cancel. It didn't make sense to spend money on 2 hotel rooms the night before. Plus it was nice to have a little time to ourselves the night before and the morning of the wedding before things got hectic.

Oh definitely cancel! We’ve been living together for 3 years, so what’s the point? I don’t sleep well without him there.

Keep ! Why not we are not really keeping anything but this 😊

While I'm comfortable with making many decisions about the wedding and running them past him. This will be one we discuss.
While it is something I would like to keep. I'll see what he thinks.

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I'm doing the exact same thing! I'm going to be staying at an AirBnB with my bridesmaids the night before and it will give me some clarity so I'm not so nervous the night before. Plus, the place I'll be staying at is closer to my ceremony spot anyway.

Cancel. We already live together and we are used to sleeping next to each other.

Keep! We want to be our first view of each other that day to be when i'm walking up the aisle to him. I'll probably get a room and one of the three nearby hotels. All are within 5 minutes of the venue. It'll make getting ready and getting there easier. No traffic or being caught by a train

Keep! I like to have an hour to reflect and write my FH a letter. Also we are getting married in a different state, so we are staying in a hotel.

Cancel, we are traveling out of state, doesn't make sense to get 2 places