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Lynnie
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Keep or Cancel: Sleeping apart the night before the wedding?

Lynnie, on July 16, 2019 at 11:05 AM

Posted in Community Conversations 277

Will you be keeping with tradition and spending the night before your wedding sleeping separately? Or are you ready to cancel this old tradition? Keep or cancel? Next Question: Matching Bridesmaids Dresses Back to the Beginning: Keep or Cancel?

Will you be keeping with tradition and spending the night before your wedding sleeping separately? Or are you ready to cancel this old tradition?

Keep or cancel?


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Back to the Beginning: Keep or Cancel?

277 Comments

  • CourtneyBrittain
    Master August 2019
    CourtneyBrittain ·
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    Keep. We don't live together yet so it wouldn't make sense to stay there.

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  • Katie
    VIP November 2019
    Katie ·
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    Cancel. I don’t think this tradition applies to us since we live together
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  • Keisly
    Dedicated November 2021
    Keisly ·
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    I’m definitely keeping this!! I think it will be very exciting and it will make him miss me more
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  • M
    Dedicated July 2019
    Miah ·
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    I don’t know are wedding is next week and I think we will probably cancel. We already live together
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  • Jessie
    Devoted September 2021
    Jessie ·
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    Cancel. Have breakfast and coffee together before a busy day.
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  • Rebecca
    Master August 2019
    Rebecca ·
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    Keeping.

    We're both actors, so we have some superstitions. We do live together, but this way he'll get to spend some time with his family the morning of the wedding, and his side of the BP can get ready at their place. I can chill with my parents, then go to the venue and get ready.

    Caveat: I don't sleep well if he hasn't been home, I'm *terrible* about waking up in the morning, and I get cranky when we don't see each other all day. So, this will be ... um... fun?

    I also fully expect to lean in for a kiss BEFORE our vows, because we always kiss each other as soon as we see each other.

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  • Christine
    Dedicated April 2020
    Christine ·
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    Cancel. He works long shifts at the hospital and I'm not willing giving up one of my nights with him. I barely get him as it is. But we will separate the morning of !
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  • Allie
    Expert April 2019
    Allie ·
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    Cancel. I’m most comfortable with him in our bed.
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  • Allycia
    Dedicated March 2020
    Allycia ·
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    Keep we wanna suprise each other on the wedding day
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  • Jessy
    Just Said Yes January 2020
    Jessy ·
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    keep! we’re getting married in paris and now spending the night before apart.
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  • Kassandra
    Dedicated October 2020
    Kassandra ·
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    Keep! I will be spending the night with my bridesmaids at a hotel and he will be with the groomsmen at our house.

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  • L
    Just Said Yes December 2021
    Laini ·
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    Keep💗Looking forward to the anticipation.
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  • Kirstin
    Just Said Yes December 2019
    Kirstin ·
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    Keep! I am very much so a traditionalist 😊
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  • Cynthia
    Devoted November 2019
    Cynthia ·
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    We are keeping this tradition not because we are religious(we have lived with each other for 3 years already 😉), we just want the anticipation of not seeing each other for the day of the wedding 👰🏼 🎩
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  • Lakesha
    Just Said Yes October 2019
    Lakesha ·
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    Keeping to tradition
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  • Emily
    Just Said Yes December 2019
    Emily ·
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    Keep tradition
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  • S
    Just Said Yes October 2019
    Shellie ·
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    Tradition is important. This one is a keeper.

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  • Mrs. H
    Master September 2019
    Mrs. H ·
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    I personally wanted to cancel, but FH wanted to keep. We are staying on our venue's property in two separate houses with the members of our wedding party, respectively, so it actually does make sense to sleep apart the night before.

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  • Jennifer
    Super October 2020
    Jennifer ·
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    Cancel! We live together and will be spending the night before the wedding together.

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  • Ashley
    Super October 2020
    Ashley ·
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    Keep, but mostly because I had a blast with my sister before her wedding when it was her bridal party and we got to do a pamper night.

    Plus it will be my bridal party and I doing the final set up/walk through at the venue that is located next door to the hotel.

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