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Keep or Cancel: Sleeping apart the night before the wedding?

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Lynnie, on July 16, 2019 at 11:05 AM

Will you be keeping with tradition and spending the night before your wedding sleeping separately? Or are you ready to cancel this old tradition? Keep or cancel? Next Question: Matching Bridesmaids Dresses Back to the Beginning: Keep or Cancel?

Will you be keeping with tradition and spending the night before your wedding sleeping separately? Or are you ready to cancel this old tradition?

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Devoted December 2019
Heather · on July 18, 2019 at 12:31 PM
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Cancel, being together the night before will ease both of our nerves for sure we keep each other calm
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Dedicated October 2021
Kelly · on July 18, 2019 at 12:32 PM
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Keep! We don't want to see each other until the ceremony.
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Dedicated October 2019
Alexandria · on July 18, 2019 at 12:34 PM
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KEEP! I will be staying the night with my MOH, and we will head out early to get ready.
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Dedicated November 2019
Elizabeth · on July 18, 2019 at 12:40 PM
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I would’ve cancelled, but his parents insisted we keep it. They’re paying for the second hotel room so 🤷🏻‍♀️
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Savvy January 2020
Meghan · on July 18, 2019 at 12:40 PM
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Cancel. Paying for two hotel rooms just for this is silly.
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Dedicated December 2019
Ashlyn · on July 18, 2019 at 12:43 PM
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Keeping this! We live together, so I think sleeping apart the night before adds a little ~mystery~ and anticipation
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Dedicated January 2020
Aubree · on July 18, 2019 at 12:49 PM
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Keep! I’m actually staying at the hotel suite we will be staying at after the wedding the day before
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Erin · on July 18, 2019 at 12:55 PM
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Keep! It is so cute to be building up for the moment when he sees you walk down that aisle!
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Devoted October 2019
Rachel · on July 18, 2019 at 12:57 PM
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We're a bit torn... I think we might cancel this one just because we enjoy our evening pillow chats.
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Just Us Two · on July 18, 2019 at 12:58 PM
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Keep, this tradition. My FH and I will not live together until after our nuptials so I think it's appropriate that we don't sleep together the night before. 🤷🏾‍♀️
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Sara · on July 18, 2019 at 1:20 PM
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What is the superstitious aspect of this tradition? We are keeping it only because the vet suit is already included and I would want a good BM night to relax before the big day.
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Dedicated May 2021
Elisa · on July 18, 2019 at 1:20 PM
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Keep. We've been living together for almost 3 years but I like how it builds the anticipation up for our first look. And it'll make things easier for the girls to leave together in the morning for the bridal suite at our venue.
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Ali · on July 18, 2019 at 1:27 PM
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Well probably cancel this one because neither of us can sleep without the other, and I have machinery I need to have when I sleep and it's such a pain to move it all.
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Devoted October 2020
Alli · on July 18, 2019 at 1:44 PM
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Cancel! We are staying the night together.
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Ivy ORP · on July 18, 2019 at 2:05 PM
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Cancel! I want those moments first thing in the morning like we do every day. It has been our thing since we got together for the alarm to wake us up for a cuddle before whoever goes to work first has to start getting ready. I can't imagine not doing that on a day we promise to wake up that way every day for the rest of our lives.
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Abriana · on July 18, 2019 at 2:09 PM
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Actually my fiance and I are intentionally living apart. We are doing this to honor God. Our first night together will be the night of our wedding!
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· on July 18, 2019 at 2:18 PM
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Keeping this one. I'm really superstitious so anything that can prevent the possibility of bad luck, I'm keeping lol.
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Expert September 2019
Elizabeth · on July 18, 2019 at 2:53 PM
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We haven't decided yet
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Savvy October 2020
Antonia · on July 18, 2019 at 3:06 PM
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Cancel, we're going to have two little ones to worry about the night before and it's so much cheaper to not do it
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Kellie · on July 18, 2019 at 3:25 PM
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I want to keep! We love together, but the night before is his time to be with his friends (and our sons) and my time to be with my friends (and our daughters)
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