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Keep or Cancel: Sleeping apart the night before the wedding?

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Lynnie, on July 16, 2019 at 11:05 AM

Will you be keeping with tradition and spending the night before your wedding sleeping separately? Or are you ready to cancel this old tradition? Keep or cancel? Next Question: Matching Bridesmaids Dresses Back to the Beginning: Keep or Cancel?

Will you be keeping with tradition and spending the night before your wedding sleeping separately? Or are you ready to cancel this old tradition?

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Devoted September 2021
Crystal · on July 18, 2019 at 11:57 PM
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Well I’m not sure yet we live 5 mins from our venue and FH doesn’t want to lol we’ll see
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Beginner October 2019
Alissa · on July 19, 2019 at 12:31 AM
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Keep, even though I won't be doing it 😂 we have an infant daughter and I really appreciate his help, especially at bedtime!
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Savvy August 2020
Maggie · on July 19, 2019 at 6:47 AM
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Cancel. If we sleep separately, we won’t sleep as well. No need to add that!
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John · on July 19, 2019 at 8:57 AM
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Keep! We are waiting to sleep together until marriage
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Devoted October 2026
Tanise · on July 19, 2019 at 9:48 AM
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He wants to, but I don't care.
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Dedicated September 2019
Kaitlyn · on July 19, 2019 at 12:24 PM
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We own a house together already so i think we would cancel but if someone thinks it easier for me to stay at there house then drive to where ever then i guess kepping
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Dedicated October 2026
Karen · on July 19, 2019 at 12:53 PM
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We already live together so we see no point in sleeping away from each the night before.
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Dedicated September 2019
Alyssa · on July 19, 2019 at 12:56 PM
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Keep. Im staying with my girls and he is staying with his boys.
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Savvy September 2019
Brianna · on July 19, 2019 at 1:04 PM
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Keep! I'm too superstitious about seeing each other on our wedding day prior to the ceremony!
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Just Said Yes November 2021
Sarah · on July 19, 2019 at 1:19 PM
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Cancel. We live together already and can't sleep well when we're apart. Plus I wouldn't wanna pay for separate places
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VIP September 2019
Yam · on July 19, 2019 at 1:24 PM
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Cancel. We’ve been together for thirteen years. He’s helping me into my dress. We’re not superstitious and I want him there. Wedding planning is stressful, why would I want to sleep alone?
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Savvy October 2020
Holly · on July 19, 2019 at 1:25 PM
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Cancel we already live together and will be putting finishing touches on everything
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Beginner October 2019
Taylor · on July 19, 2019 at 1:28 PM
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Indifferent really. But for our wedding, it's cancel. We will be staying together the night before.
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Just Said Yes October 2019
Casie · on July 19, 2019 at 3:08 PM
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Keep. Even though we already live together it will give me time with my bridesmaids and mother the night before and the morning of. Plus, I am not doing a first look so the first time he will see me is when I walk down the aisle - and that's how I wanted it.
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Just Said Yes November 2019
Melissa · on July 19, 2019 at 4:19 PM
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Keep. I think this builds up the excitement of the big day.
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Dedicated May 2020
Chantell · on July 19, 2019 at 4:37 PM
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Honestly didn't even think about it. We probably won't though just because it's more convenient for both of us to be home cause our venue is only 6 miles from our homes.
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Dedicated October 2019
Cecy Rg · on July 19, 2019 at 6:05 PM
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For me this tradition is a neutral but to maintain some magic, i’ll say keep
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Savvy October 2019
Amanda · on July 19, 2019 at 6:08 PM
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Keep. As much as it may suck, I dont think I'll get that much sleep anyway so it wont really make a difference. I also think itll be good for us to have a night to ourselves to reflect.
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Expert October 2019
FutureMrsC · on July 19, 2019 at 6:14 PM
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Keep! We're staying at different rooms the night before but my mom is staying with me in my suite and he is staying with his brother so it's not costing more.
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Anna · on July 19, 2019 at 6:26 PM
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Keep. I love the tradition and the suspense will build until we see each other.
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