Just fired my Maid of Honor.

Wow! You do not fire a friend; in my experience it is an honor to be in somebodies wedding. My husband and I planned our wedding by ourselves, it was nobody else's job.

My MOH is out completely as of TODAY... 2 weeks before the big day. SO SAD!!!!

Well said.

I want to fire my sister, and I could if I wanted to. She has done nothing but complained. I am not have a bridal shower or Bacholorette party because all she cares about is her jail bird boyfriend. I can't wait for this wedding to be over with.

I didn't read all of your comments, but from what I read she was not there for you as you planned your wedding. And for some unknown reason (you may have commented but like I said I didn't read all of you comments) your FH is unable to assist. I understand when people feel they need to remove people from their wedding, but, IMPO, it's not the appropriate decision to make. I have been removed because I wasn't "there" for the bride, but being "there" for her meant I had to put her first. Friends can't always do that, and a majority of the time, our lives are in a tailspin, but all the bride sees is people not being "there" for her.

Now I understand you removing her from the BP, but uninviting her altogether was just downright rude.

I selected my sister as my MOH. She lives 1,000 miles away in another state - but has been the BIGGEST help ever! I am so grateful I've had her along with me on this crazy journey.

BUT I did have to unfortunately let go of a bridesmaid (who was a close friend). She did not seem into my wedding either and I heard less from her after my engagement. She missed our deadlines for everything, wouldn't respond to us, and backed out of my bach trip. I tried several times to meet her to speak in person, but she either 'forgot' or canceled on me. I was so stressed about this, thought about it for weeks, and I don't deserve that. I'm busy AF, but I've still been there for all of my close friends during my wedding planning.

As a bride, you should NOT have to be stressed out by your bridesmaids. You're honoring them by having them with you, it's a 2-way street. Their position is to help you if needed, especially a MOH. The least they can do is offer you support and encouragement. Being a bridesmaid is a commitment, they are not regular guests.

So sorry to hear that your MOH did not work out. It's your choice if you uninvited her, and I don't blame you for it.

This issues has come up so many times. And while yes it is an honor to be asked to be the MOH.

There are things she should be doing to support you for you big day, including planning from the day she agrees. I know this is not favored by the general WW public. But here is a WW link that lays it all out what a MOH should be doing to help the bride.

https://www.weddingwire.com/wedding-ideas/the-ultimate-maid-of-honor-duties-checklist

Honestly, she did say there was more to the story, and that the BM was contacting other friends & family (I assume they are also guests), and that's wildly inappropriate. I think she was probably looking for some camaraderie from someone who's gone through the same.

Sorry, it is nice if someone does the items on that list but those aren't requirements. I had a bridal party. I didn't ask them to throw me parties. Most didn't even live in my state and I didn't see them in person for the year before the wedding. Why would I expect anyone to do anything for me except stand to me and be comfortable and happy on the day of the wedding?

Haha! Funny