I always thought (yeah, tacky, I know) that if people invite me for their weddings, they actually want me to be there. But now I understand people do not expect all of their guests to show up, which is also tacky.
We currently have 2 tacky invitations for 2 weddings this summer. I’m wondering if we are among those tacky guests who should decline but to the couple’s tacky surprise, we accept? Before you say anything negative, I understand it’s tacky we haven’t RSVPed before we received the invitations.
Is it tacky if I call the couples and ask them if that really want us to show up? Or should we decline and just send them a tacky gift?
Please help, but don’t comment if you’re going to say something tacky. Thanks!
