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Mrs. S™
Master October 2011

Is this tacky?

Mrs. S™, on April 11, 2013 at 10:39 AM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 438

I always thought (yeah, tacky, I know) that if people invite me for their weddings, they actually want me to be there. But now I understand people do not expect all of their guests to show up, which is also tacky. We currently have 2 tacky invitations for 2 weddings this summer. I’m wondering if we...

I always thought (yeah, tacky, I know) that if people invite me for their weddings, they actually want me to be there. But now I understand people do not expect all of their guests to show up, which is also tacky.

We currently have 2 tacky invitations for 2 weddings this summer. I’m wondering if we are among those tacky guests who should decline but to the couple’s tacky surprise, we accept? Before you say anything negative, I understand it’s tacky we haven’t RSVPed before we received the invitations.

Is it tacky if I call the couples and ask them if that really want us to show up? Or should we decline and just send them a tacky gift?

Please help, but don’t comment if you’re going to say something tacky. Thanks!

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  • Mrs. S™
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    I didn't think about that. TackyTackyTacky.

    @Hayley, I'm still not sure if it should be *pro bono* or *nonprofit* haha!

    RayRay, glad to see you're alive.

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  • ** Christina Q! **
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    Reenski, did you see that girl had a dream about us lol!

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  • MissB
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    Well since my tacky brakes went out and they can't find the tacky parts in the entire state I am stuck at home and will be keeping this entire tacky post going all day lol

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  • Mrs. S™
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    @Christina, what???

    @MJ, yes :-)

    @Oy MissB, what do you drive??? Somebody was looking for brakes for this one:


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  • ** Christina Q! **
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    Lol. @ Reesnki

    https://www.weddingwire.com/wedding-forums/you-know-youre-on-ww-too-much-when/a36cda1a595f4da2.html

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  • Just Reenski
    Master December 2012
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    Who had a dream about who?

    I had a dream about packing for Hawaii. I will now be putting all our electronic items (phone chargers, camera charger, etc.) in a labeled freezer bag so I know I have it all when we come back.

    This is what my dreams do, they make me more organized and efficient.

    Tacky a$$ dreams.

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  • amanda
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    I love this TACKY thread! I'm now late for my tacky spray tan appointment and then have to rush to the mall to get a tacky dress for my tacky E- pics tomorrow. I'm just in a tacky mood now! And I have the Tacky song stuck in my head Lynz!!

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  • MissB
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    A stupid Hyundai Elantra stupid stupid stupid car the caliper on the rear brake has a hole in it so its not just pads and rotors ugh

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  • Just Reenski
    Master December 2012
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    Thanks for the link, Christina.

    I guess I should be flattered? But I really feel like I'm on here too much now. But I've only made approximately 5028 comments.

    Well, I've only commented on 5028 threads. So far.

    Is it tacky to not be at 10K after the amount of time I've been here?

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  • ** Christina Q! **
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    I think it is yes Reenski. You troll around and only post on the tacky/toilet threads and ignore all of the new bride questions. For shame

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  • Just Reenski
    Master December 2012
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    I'll have you know I haven't even looked at the toilet humor thread because I'm scared to look at it.

    But otherwise, yes, you are tackily correct, Christina. So tacky of you to be right. Don't you know being wrong is untacky?

    I think, not sure, this thread is long and confusing.

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  • Mrs. S™
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    Ayayay! Did somebody mention HOW MANY COMMENTS WE HAVE????? That's tacky if I've EVER seen tacky.

    Except for Amanda's epics and MissB's car. ObviTackyously.

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  • MissB
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    Lol no my car is behaving in a very tacky way so it can be called tacky and I am ok with it

    I think this has to be the most fun and tacky filled post ever

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  • Hayley C™
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    You are right Mrs. S ~ pro bono might be tacky ~ that would include the ying-yang.... that I also do work that I get paid for ~ that won't do....

    might need to be "nonProfit"

    or "Pinches your Pennies"

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  • ** Christina Q! **
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    I feel tackier already for being on this thread now! In fact I have a tiny baby tee on with pants that are too small for me with a thong hanging out. PLUS I'm wearing all that while putting up polka dot wallpaper!

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  • ** Christina Q! **
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    Well I stillllll want to know who does that! Must be somebody who has a lot of cats and likes the squat and bury method (Mrs S) Smiley laugh

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  • Hayley C™
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    Thanks for the Visual Christina

    ~ I don't know.... to follow off your comment on another thread, IS it tacky to have your ex-fraturnity brother be your bridesmaids?

    edit* personally, I think it is a hilariously brilliant idea

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  • ** Christina Q! **
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    Not at all, I dont think. Just as long as his dress isnt too short and his makeup is tasteful and not slutty

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  • Mrs. S™
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    Lynzey, one would think it's time for a NEW tacky song, yes? Especially for Christina's BMs.

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  • Hayley C™
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    Bummer, so, they can't be dressed like Lynzey (in that wedding party photo a few pages back) with pasties and a red thong?

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