Honorary Bridesmaids? Yes or no!

These girls are literally batshit. Thank the heavens you are getting away from them

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These girls are racist, condescending monsters and you are SO much better off without them in your life. A "young mentor" to you? What in the actual fuck. Seriously.

I hope you cut ties with all of them, and are open and honest if anyone asks you why you won't be attending the wedding of a hateful bitch.

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You should respond to those texts with the link to this page. I would LOVE for these assholes to come pay WW a visit.

Good riddance. Fuck them. You deserve better. All the examples they are using to try and justify this behavior are asinine. A person can lose weight to be a model if they so choose. A person cannot however change their skin color to fit in with these losers ridiculous expectation of "color uniformity"

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OMG this group is over the top.

And do tell your husband--he is your support, cheerleader and biggest fan!

You are not a loser, but they sure are. They act like middle schoolers.

You are going to come out of this so much stronger and able to see your worth like we do

Always feel free to come on here to vent or anything you need.

This is the most heartbreaking blatant racism I think I've ever seen. OP, I hope you love yourself enough (you should!) to know that you deserve more than people who say the color of the skin means you don't fit the part. I'm surprised that you never saw this racism from them before, because they obviously were raised to view you as less of a person than they are.

You need to be so strong and surround yourself with strong women and men that can help you see how terrible they are. Do not belittle yourself and make yourself feel that they are right, because they just aren't. And they might think less of you because of your decision, but their opinions don't matter, and I promise that you will be happier with them out of your life. Stay strong, girl.

Shut the fuck up. What the fuck is wrong with these people. I can't. Please, please know you are so much better than they ALL are.

Don't get sunburned, wtf is that shit. Girl doesn't even know anything. I'm so ragey for you right now. OP, if you ever need ANYTHING, please please let me know. A friend to talk to, shoulder to lean on... We can message outside of WW anytime you need, you just let me know and I'll share my info.

I can't even.

WHO IS THISPERSON?! So manipulative and making it seem like you should be grateful for being in their presence. WTF

And omg the comparison to being over weight vs being black. IM DONE

I REALLY HATE WHEN PEOPLE USE THE BIBLE TO FIT A MALICIOUS AGENDA.

Don't hide behind you Christianity when you are going against the simplest christian principle:Love one another.

Then using their friendship as ransom. Just too much.

FUCK THEM!!!! They can have each other.

Does A stand for asshole?

You did good. H should support you and hang in there. Good friends are out there.

ETA: I may have missed it, but where are you located? If you're in Indy, we should definitely get together.

OP - Fuck these people. There reactions to your honest feelings proves the type of people they are.

They are ugly, hateful, selfish, horrible people who do not deserve to be around you.

I am so sorry you are dealing with this. Know that we are here for you

OP You are not their philanthropy/ feel good friendship project. Anyone who can befriend you and then dangle it in your face was never your friend.

This is pushing me over an edge. The audacity of these girls. Who the fuck do they think they are.

Delete them, block them, and sashay away with your bad self. Shine on these bitches and let them watch you rise with a whole new group of friends that value and appreciate "YOU".

"She visits you weekly."

Yeah for somewhere to stay close to work.

"You don't get sunburned." THE FUCK?????????????

You are so much better off without these looloo birds.

This chick really said "you do not get sunburned" WTF

@Constance she said she lives in France.

@OP, I'm proud of you. That took a lot of strength.