My MoH moved to Boston recently. She was invited to a wedding almost immediately after starting a new job. She wanted to make friends and she is very outgoing so of course she accepted. She barely knew this girl aside from the fact that they shared a cubicle at work so she just got her a card and like a $20 bottle of wine. Fast forward to a month after the wedding. Some other office girl made a point of stopping by her cubicle to tell her it was "so not cool" for her to only give a $20 bottle of wine when the wedding was a $200 a head affair. We are from Indiana okay - no one aside from your parents or maybe your grandparents will gift you something costing $200. Most people rarely spend over $50 unless you are close. AND since when is it not proper to be a gracious gift recipient and since when does the cost per head at a wedding dictate the monetary amount of the gift? How do you even KNOW the cost per head to base your gift value on? Someone explain this to me please lol