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Okay ladies I need some advice. Me and FH have been together for almost 8 years, we live together and have for about 6 years and have 2 kids together. We've always talked about getting married on and...
So as most of you know my mom and I's relationship can be high conflict at times. I have my 2-week daughter in the NICU and our main focus has changed from wedding to my daughter as it should be, So...
So I’ve been engaged a whole 24 hours. I was loving everything about it ! Everyone was so happy. Went and saw my parents today and my mom was already holding money over my “our” heads. She was being...
Hi All, We are getting married in PR (where my family is from) in March and are incredibly excited but stressed. We sent our invitations and have received most of our RSVP's. Before we planned the...
We have a two year engagement and during the last nearly 1.5 years we have had so many deaths and divorces that have affected our guest list. For example, we've both lost grandparents who we never...
Is anyone struggling with the opinions with their family and closest friends?? It seems that everyone has a disagreement with the decisions that I have made and say that I will regret it later. And my...
I am reposting this because it seems like my message lost half of itself when I posted it. My husband and I eloped last spring during the pandemic and planned a small family ceremony and reception for...
Some back story, my wedding was originally set for 3/20/2020, the same week Texas shut down because of covid. I had asked leading up to it about allowing my mom a plus one even though never asked me...
My mother and I always had a strained relationship. She is more outspoken and doesn’t think of the consequences of her words. She told me to book a room block and then supported her side of the family...
My brothers wedding is adult only. It’s a back yard tent wedding in a different state, plane ride away and he wants my daughter to be there but not at the wedding my child is 3. He tried to arrange...
Hello Everyone, I was looking for advice on how to deal with family not being happy about me eloping. Here's the back story: Me and my family are very tight knitted. We do everything together and have...
My FH and I are paying for 98.9% of our own wedding. We are 25 and want a super trendy, relaxed and romantic wedding. My FH aunt is VERY formal and has unlimited funds. His aunt has offered to pay for...
I'm getting remarried next year and my mom is not showing any interest in wanting to be involved with any planning ( She wasn't the first time around either). First time around we never went more...
We got married this Saturday. It was a wonderful, small ceremony with only 15 guests - we had to keep it small because of local covid guidelines, and postponed the party until this summer. We invited...
Hi! I'm conflicted whether or not to bring my MIL wedding dress shopping with me. My mother said absolutely not, but my mother is the one that usually talks down my body. I want to have a good...
I hate that I’m even writing this but I don’t know what else to do and I just need some advice here. First, I will start with the fact that I’m my FH and I are paying for our entire wedding with no...
Hey Long story for this but I was supposed to get married in March 2020 in Vegas. There was a family holiday already booked in before we got engaged. Once we were engaged we thought we may aswell add...
So.... Fiance, I guess now ex-fiance called off the wedding... About an hour ago. I'm a wreck. Should I call my vendors now to cancel? Or wait a few days to see if it blows over? Honestly tho I don't...
Hello, I am looking to do something special for my aunt/godmother who is my mother’s sister.I want her to be in the place of my mom on my special day. I lost my mom 8 years ago to Kidney failure and...
This sounds like a no brainer, but I can assure you that it’s not. I actually want my step mom to marry us. I will explain why. To summarize my childhood that I had with my dad and step mom, is...