Do you go to sleep angry at each other?

Never!!! Learned this one from my parents.

No! Never, I could never sleep if we are angry and don't settle an argument before bed.

NEVER go to bed mad is a rule in our house

Never. We talk about everything and we are hardly ever truly angry at each other anyhow.

Maybe sometimes but usually if it I am angry because I need to take a nap (like a child), but we don't fight often. I always tell him I love him I just need a nap or food!

I would be lying if I say never. However, we try to resolve any issues before bed.

Nope, but I can't remember ever having an argument that could even lead to going to bed angry. We don't disagree often and when we do it's very minor.

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That's really sweet and certainly a great lesson to learn!

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That's a great rule to have! It means you'll wake up in a clear state or mind!

View Quoted Comment Thats a rule I’ve had since childhood ! My parents used this and they’ve been married for 28 years

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Wow, that's really nice! It's great to hear that you have a really level-headed relationship!

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That's amazing! I'm sure you take a lot of inspiration and influence from their relationship!

View Quoted Comment Yes 100% !!! My parents really are great ❤️

Yup! We do. From a counseling perspective, there is absolutely nothing wrong with going to bed "angry." Often, it helps to clear your head and give you some perspective. I'm a big believer in going to bed if you need to sleep. Being exhausted, physically and mentally, is not going to make a conversation/argument more productive. We rarely fight, but we do bicker, and it is usually when we're tired.

On very rare occasions we have, but not often. And it's not necessarily anger as it is annoyance.

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That's such a great point! Sometimes you're just so annoyed you want to go to sleep!

We do, sometimes we will go a few nights depending on the argument... I'm usually the first to cave, I get silly and just hug and kiss him.. I can't be mad to long, life is too short.

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That's a really interesting point and you're so right! Many arguments stem from being tired!

Nope. We don’t fight that often but when we do we resolve it before the end of the night.

Never. Then again, we have been together for 2 and a half years, and still have yet to have our first actual fight, but when we do have little disagreements, we would never go to bed annoyed or angry