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Do you go to sleep angry at each other?

Sam, on December 18, 2018 at 11:05 AM Posted in Family and Relationships 0 158
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Do you have those nights where you just can’t let it go and fall asleep angry? Or do you always kiss and make-up before going to bed? Do you never, always, or sometimes go to sleep angry at each other?


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  • Alexandra
    VIP June 2019
    Alexandra ·
    Never!!! Learned this one from my parents.
  • Jennifer
    Master September 2018
    Jennifer ·

    No! Never, I could never sleep if we are angry and don't settle an argument before bed.

  • D
    Super September 2019
    Dana ·
    NEVER go to bed mad is a rule in our house
  • FutureMrsKC
    Master January 2019
    FutureMrsKC ·

    Never. We talk about everything and we are hardly ever truly angry at each other anyhow.

  • PurdyAikey
    Super January 2019
    PurdyAikey ·

    Maybe sometimes but usually if it I am angry because I need to take a nap (like a child), but we don't fight often. I always tell him I love him I just need a nap or food!

  • Angerra
    VIP August 2019
    Angerra ·
    I would be lying if I say never. However, we try to resolve any issues before bed.
  • Alyssa
    Super July 2019
    Alyssa ·
    Nope, but I can't remember ever having an argument that could even lead to going to bed angry. We don't disagree often and when we do it's very minor.
  • Sam
    Master August 2024
    Sam ·
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    That's really sweet and certainly a great lesson to learn!

  • Sam
    Master August 2024
    Sam ·
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    That's a great rule to have! It means you'll wake up in a clear state or mind!

  • D
    Super September 2019
    Dana ·
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    Thats a rule I’ve had since childhood ! My parents used this and they’ve been married for 28 years
  • Sam
    Master August 2024
    Sam ·
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    Wow, that's really nice! It's great to hear that you have a really level-headed relationship!

  • Sam
    Master August 2024
    Sam ·
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    That's amazing! I'm sure you take a lot of inspiration and influence from their relationship!

  • D
    Super September 2019
    Dana ·
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    Yes 100% !!! My parents really are great ❤️
  • Nemo
    VIP August 2018
    Nemo ·

    Yup! We do. From a counseling perspective, there is absolutely nothing wrong with going to bed "angry." Often, it helps to clear your head and give you some perspective. I'm a big believer in going to bed if you need to sleep. Being exhausted, physically and mentally, is not going to make a conversation/argument more productive. We rarely fight, but we do bicker, and it is usually when we're tired.

  • S
    Devoted May 2019
    Sarah ·
    On very rare occasions we have, but not often. And it's not necessarily anger as it is annoyance.
  • Sam
    Master August 2024
    Sam ·
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    That's such a great point! Sometimes you're just so annoyed you want to go to sleep!

  • Arkilia
    Super October 2020
    Arkilia ·
    We do, sometimes we will go a few nights depending on the argument... I'm usually the first to cave, I get silly and just hug and kiss him.. I can't be mad to long, life is too short.
  • Sam
    Master August 2024
    Sam ·
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    That's a really interesting point and you're so right! Many arguments stem from being tired!

  • Kenisha
    Champion June 2019
    Kenisha ·
    Nope. We don’t fight that often but when we do we resolve it before the end of the night.
  • Becca
    Super August 2019
    Becca ·
    Never. Then again, we have been together for 2 and a half years, and still have yet to have our first actual fight, but when we do have little disagreements, we would never go to bed annoyed or angry

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