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Do you go to sleep angry at each other?

Sam, on December 18, 2018 at 11:05 AM

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Do you have those nights where you just can’t let it go and fall asleep angry? Or do you always kiss and make-up before going to bed? Do you never, always, or sometimes go to sleep angry at each other? Next Question: Do you go to weddings solo? Start from the Beginning: Never, Always, or Sometimes? ...

Do you have those nights where you just can’t let it go and fall asleep angry? Or do you always kiss and make-up before going to bed? Do you never, always, or sometimes go to sleep angry at each other?


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  • Margaret
    Dedicated December 2019
    Margaret ·
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    Never.

    If we haven't managed to fully resolve a disagreement, before we go to sleep, we call a truce, and agree to sort it out in the morning.

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  • Sam
    Master August 2024
    Sam ·
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    That's smart, Margaret! It's nice to settle your problems and get to sleep to start fresh in the morning!

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  • maryann
    Expert June 2019
    maryann ·
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    Hardly ever... we try not to do this often. Don't like waking up still angry

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  • Sam
    Master August 2024
    Sam ·
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    That's a great point, Maryann!

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  • Kelly
    Just Said Yes April 2019
    Kelly ·
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    Sometimes, it's usually something I'm overreacting about or I just need food and attention.

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  • Terra
    Expert September 2020
    Terra ·
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    Sometimes. I will say, we don't always reach a total resolution before bed, but we push away the anger enough to snuggle.
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  • J
    Beginner June 2019
    Jessica ·
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    Sometimes, although we try hard not to go to bed angry. We will usually tell eachother we love the other and kiss, but still be angry when we fall asleep.

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  • Vanessasaurus
    VIP June 2019
    Vanessasaurus ·
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    Almost always but we have had about 2 nights in our entire relationship where we needed a good sleep on it first!
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  • Faith
    Savvy November 2019
    Faith ·
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    We never go to sleep angry at each other because we find that isn’t healthy. We try to kiss and makeup before falling asleep but there are times where the anger was probably just there from being overly tired and better to just sleep it off.
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  • Sam
    Master August 2024
    Sam ·
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    Hi Kelly! I think often times when couples fight someone is hungry or tired! Smiley laugh

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  • Sam
    Master August 2024
    Sam ·
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    Hi Faith! That's a great mentality to have!

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  • Sam
    Master August 2024
    Sam ·
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    You are so right! Sometimes you just need to take a break and think it over!

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  • Sam
    Master August 2024
    Sam ·
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    This happens all the time! You just need to kiss and makeup, and let it go!

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  • Katelyn
    Expert October 2020
    Katelyn ·
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    Never! When I first started dating my fiancé my sister instructed me to never go to bed angry. That before I went to bed or we both went to bed we work everything out.
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  • Laura
    Master October 2019
    Laura ·
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    Not really. We rarely fight and tend to let most stuff go...I think that's a benefit of us being an older bride and groom!

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  • Sam
    Master August 2024
    Sam ·
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    That's great advice, Katelyn! Smiley smile

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  • Sam
    Master August 2024
    Sam ·
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    I think you're right, Laura! You certainly have a better outlook on life and your relationship!

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  • Jessica
    Devoted December 2018
    Jessica ·
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    FIL loves to say that he thinks the strongest part of mine and my wife's relationship is our ability to work through any disagreements immediately. So, no, we never go to bed angry.

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  • Laura
    Master October 2019
    Laura ·
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    Thank you! I think us both being divorced and knowing what didn't work helped too...we also both grew up with both parents together so we saw what works too

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  • Sam
    Master August 2024
    Sam ·
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    That's amazing, Jessica! Smiley smile

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