Do you go to sleep angry at each other?

Never!! We end up talking it all out and come to some kind of understanding. Going to sleep angry with each other makes things worse. My parents taught me this.

That is awesome, Tanesha! Communication is so healthy!

Ooo that sounds pretty tricky, Kayla!

Never! Never go to bed angry. Always kiss goodnight and say I love you....always!!

Never. Sometimes I'll feel something towards him or wonder how he feels cause he looks upset but then he wouldn't want to talk about it. Later on he would explain it wasn't anything that had to do with me so in the end I know he wasn't upset with me but going to bed having that thought kind of makes you a little bit restless ya know

Sometimes.

If, before bedtime, we can truly resolve whatever issue has us angry, then absolutely that's the best way to go. About 90% of the time that's how things work out, which is great.

Sometimes, however, we don't have enough time for that (like if it's already midnight and I NEED to get some sleep before a meeting the next morning), or the issue is too big/serious to attempt to solve while we're tired and stressed out, or I can tell that I'm in a bad headspace where I'll be tempted to "resolve" the issue by just caving in to avoid conflict (because I'm a recovering co-dependent people-pleaser).

In those cases we go ahead and go to bed angry and then we resolve the issue the following day when we're better equipped to handle it. That really works for us; it's not always comfortable or easy, but it prevents a lot of bad decisions and resentment.

So never go to bed angry.... unless you're angry and it's bedtime. :-)

Rarely. I learned from my parents not to make this a habit because of the problems it leads to.

No not usually. If we start to I can't sleep so I have to talk it out.

Almost never! If one of us goes to bed upset, we usually wake up and are over it.

Tried to once and couldn't sleep all night lol. So nope, no sleeping without finding solutions.