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Do you go to bed at the same time?

Lynnie, on April 2, 2019 at 11:05 AM

Posted in Family and Relationships 149

Experts say that going to bed at the same times is a healthy habit in a relationship. Probably because it gives time for intimacy and puts you on the same schedule! But in real life, sleep schedules aren't always that easy to coordinate! Do you and your future spouse go to bed at the same time?...

Experts say that going to bed at the same times is a healthy habit in a relationship. Probably because it gives time for intimacy and puts you on the same schedule! But in real life, sleep schedules aren't always that easy to coordinate!

Do you and your future spouse go to bed at the same time? Never, always, or sometimes?


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149 Comments

  • Jessica
    Expert October 2019
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    Always.
    I actually made it a point at the beginning of our relationship even if we had different hours because I truly believe it makes for a better relationship. When my schedule drastically changed (I had to be up at midnight to be at work by 2am) he then said he'd change his without me even saying anything and it made my heart 💖.
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  • T
    Just Said Yes September 2019
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    Never. I wish we did. But I like to go to bed early and he is a night owl!
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  • Allie
    Beginner July 2019
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    Yes always!!
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  • Ana
    Dedicated October 2019
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    Yes. I may fall asleep faster but we go to bed at the same time. Fiance has said that he doesn't like going to bed before or after me. Smiley heart

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  • Sarah
    Dedicated September 2019
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    Haha almost never. Once in a blue moon. Early bird/night owl partnerships are interesting lol.

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  • Future Mrs.W
    Dedicated June 2019
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    Its impossible for us. He works from 5pm-3am where I work either 715am-415pm or 830-530. we try to get a little more sleep together on the weekends, if possible, when I stay up late and he goes to bed early. But it throws our schedule off a little bit.

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  • Jacque
    Dedicated July 2019
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    Rarely.. I'm an insomniac & night owl so I dont sleep much & I'm usually up late w/restless leg syndrome
    My fiance has been working 2 jobs to pay for our wedding & honeymoon so he usually falls asleep early.
    Hes such a hard worker!!
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  • Heather
    Expert April 2020
    Heather ·
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    Most of the time, we go to bed at the same time. Occasionally he'll go to bed way earlier or way later.

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  • Caitlin
    Beginner September 2020
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    Always, unless I have a big test coming up and I stay up to study more.
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  • Alyrae
    Super February 2020
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    Nope he is usually up all night cause he works nights
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  • Maggie
    Savvy June 2021
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    Pretty much always. Unless one of us is sick.
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  • Jennifer
    Super October 2020
    Jennifer ·
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    Never. I work day shift and he works PM shift. He gets home after I've fallen asleep on the couch 😂
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  • Jasmine
    Beginner July 2021
    Jasmine ·
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    Sometimes......i get off work at 1am he go to work at 7am but when I'm off or he off we go to bed together
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  • Dedicated September 2024
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    We used to. Now that he works night shifts we can't. I'm usually in bed by 11pm and he doesn't get home until 5am.
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  • Brittany
    Dedicated August 2020
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    Sometimes, he goes to sleep later than I do due to our work schedules.
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  • Brianna N
    Super October 2019
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    Almost always! Unless he gets stuck on a video game and I can't wait any longer, lol. But we love praying and then going to sleep together, it is our little ritual!

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  • Heather
    Dedicated July 2020
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    Almost always. We both tend to go to bed around midnight. That’s usually when we text each other goodnight.
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  • Mrscase2022
    Devoted March 2022
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    Nope it just depends sometimes I stay up later sometimes he does

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  • Natalia
    Expert October 2020
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    Sometimes. He likes to stay up much later than I. So I will either go to sleep and he joins when he is ready, or he will lie down with me and scratch my back whilst watching some quiet t.v until he is ready.

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  • Andrea
    Master January 2021
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    I usually go to bed way before he does. But it depends on the day, and what we are doing during the nights.

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