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Do you get jealous?

Lynnie, on April 2, 2019 at 11:05 AM Posted in Family and Relationships 0 111
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Hey jealousy! 馃幎 Some people like a little healthy jealousy in a relationship (emphasis on little!), but sometimes jealousy can spell disaster! How good are you at handling the green-eyed monster in your relationship?

Do you get jealous? Never, always, or sometimes?


Do you get jealous? 1

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111 Comments

Latest activity by Sweetness, on December 26, 2020 at 6:33 PM
  • Mrs. H
    Master September 2019
    Mrs. H
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    Sometimes, more me than him. I've been through a lot of crap in my past relationships - cheating, lying, etc. He hasn't

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  • JustKidding
    VIP April 2018
    JustKidding
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    Never. Just not my thing

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  • Future Mrs. K
    VIP June 2019
    Future Mrs. K
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    Sometimes but very rarely. We're not usually in situations that would cause the other to be jealous in the first place so it usually doesn't come up but every once in awhile I'm sure it happens.

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  • Victoria
    Super May 2019
    Victoria
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    Sometimes. I trust him 100% but sometimes I just feel self conscious and compare myself to others.
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  • Gen
    Champion June 2019
    Gen
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    I definitely did the first year of our relationship... a little less the second year but still slightly... now, not at all lol. I trust him 100% Smiley smile

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  • maryann
    Expert June 2019
    maryann
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    Sometimes... but he is actually worse than I am...

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  • Formerbride
    VIP June 2019
    Formerbride
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    Never. I just don't care about that I guess.

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  • Adrianna
    Devoted June 2020
    Adrianna
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    I used to in past relationships, but my FH makes it so easy for me to trust him. He鈥檚 always open and honest to me about everything. I鈥檓 always the first person he calls when he has news about anything even if it鈥檚 something small. Makes me feel safe, secure, and that I can trust him completely. I love him 馃グ
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  • Jasmine
    Master August 2021
    Jasmine
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    As of yet, I have had no reason to get jealous. My FH is pretty much to himself and the female friends that he does have are already taken and they don't really talk much to begin with. I've pretty much been the same way. I work all the time and most of my co workers are female anyway so we've been pretty solid on the whole not be jealous aspect.

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  • Kristin
    Super November 2019
    Kristin
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    Never, I trust him. He also doesn't drink so that takes away some of the opportunity. He's not really social I'm not worried

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  • Anna
    Master June 2020
    Anna
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    Yes I do, but not over other women. I do get jealous when he always puts the kids first. He has 4, 3 are grown.
    Sometimes it seems he is always making sure to have quality time with them. So, he has no time left over for us.

    My stepson is here every other week and when he calls and wants to come stay with us. He is 8 going on 9 and insists that his dad sleep in his room with him.

    He also demands all of his attention the entire time he is here. When we do get a moment together , he throws a fit and sees to it that he is alone with his Dad.
    So, I'm essentially alone for two weeks a month.
    Sometimes, it feels like he spends more time focused on relationships outside of our home.

    I'm definitely the bottom of the totem pole. It does hurt my feelings and it makes me jealous of how he sees to spending time with them and doesn't value any alone time with me.

    He responds that he sees me everyday....but, a few minutes before and after work is not time that is focused on us and making our relationship stronger.

    I'm working on it, but it isn't always easy.
    I was always taught that the marriage or relationship should be the priority and the kids should be woven in around that.

    A strong foundation must be laid for any relationship in my opinion.



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  • Beverly
    Dedicated July 2020
    Beverly
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    Never i dont think so atleast
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  • Alexandra
    VIP June 2019
    Alexandra
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    I'd say I'm somewhere between sometimes and never. Suuuuper rarely, and I'm not proud of myself when the jealousy monster comes out!

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  • Caitlin
    Dedicated November 2019
    Caitlin
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    Not at all! Neither one of us are jealous type people.

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  • Kaitlyn
    Dedicated July 2020
    Kaitlyn
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    No. He has never given me a reason on why I shouldn鈥檛 trust him.
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  • Ash
    Savvy May 2019
    Ash
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    I do.. something I am trying to vanquish. I trust him, but sometimes can't help it, or feel like I can't. It's a self esteem thing. I have also been through terrible, abusive relationships. Lying right to my face, treated like trash. So yeah, it's taken a bit of time and hard work, and still work, but he thinks I'm worth it, and chooses me every time, which helps the jealousy factor by helping me feel valued and appreciated. Yeah, I know you can't gauge your worth from somebody else's perception of it, but having a man who thinks I'm the universe versus the alternative has done wonders for my previously broken self esteem. It's important to remember that your SO is not your therapist. You can have issues, but work through them without using him or her as a crutch. That, I believe, is key.

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  • Becca
    Super August 2019
    Becca
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    Never. I'm generally not a jealous person
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  • Whitney
    Savvy September 2020
    Whitney
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    Sometimes. I like all of his attention but in a healthy way, I guess I can say that.

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  • EllieRose
    Expert February 2020
    EllieRose
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    Sometimes. Him more than me. I'm pretty confident that he wouldn't have asked me to marry him if there was someone else he was eyeballin' but he tends to not appreciate my male friends!

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  • idosoon
    Devoted February 2020
    idosoon
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    Same here.

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