Cash bar

... and then I noticed there were 25 pages.

Cash bars are rude. No guests wants to go to a Wedding reception and have to pay for their drinks. Try beer and wine if you cannot afford alcohol if not may have to consider cutting back so you Can add wine and beer.

@meetthesheets2016 don't forget money dance!

We are choosing a venue that allows outside liquor so we can costco it up. Hire a bartender.

You should do beer and wine, everything else cash bar.

Lol that there's 489 comments on this thread

Surprised this thread is still up. Good job for not hiding it OP. And damn, almost 500 comments!

How is this almost 500 comments long?

@futuremalcolm I about fell over when I saw this is still up (just after midnight EST!)

@futuremalcolm Maybe OP realized hiding would only make her WW reputation worse?

I have been to wedding with cash bars and it was no big deal to me or any others. I am having a cash bar at my reception I am giving out $200 on drink tickets. It's a personal decision

^^obviously didn't read the thread

@meetthesheets ^^ so close but not quite LOL

Lol I love when the OP doesn't hear what they want to hear and they close with "I'm just gonna do what I want"

We know you are, but if you're asking if you SHOULD just pay for the bar or if it's rude, the answer is yes. Plain and simple.

She asked a question there is no need for so many of you to respond so rude.

If it's not in your budget then don't know it. I know everyone else says that it's rude but I am not having an open bar either but thats because of the demographics of our guest; it would literally be a waste of money.

Ok it's over 500 now!! Lol

Can't.scroll.anymore.

It takes a good 10 seconds to scroll through this on mobile. When will it die?!

Amanda B, we had homemade wine for our Communion and gave an extra bottle to our priest

It literally just took me an hour to catch up on this thread. Worth it. Also why is everyone defending cash bars a one star double ring avatar???