Discussions I've participated in

Hi! For bridal party photos, do bridesmaids have their bouquets with them? Is it necessary? Can they just hold them for ceremony or is it weird for them not to take photos with them l? thanks!

Hi! I paid for my bridesmaids hair services - it was optional but said if any of them wanted to do it I would cover it. All opted yes. I'd like to ask them to cover the $25 tip. Is this okay or...

Hi all! I want to share with my bridal party the timeline of the day - what time their hair/make up is scheduled for, photos, and ceremony rehearsal time - so that everyone knows where to be when....

Hi! I am of course tipping my vendors. Do I include a prewritten thank you card along with the tip? Or just the tip in an envelope? Thanks!

Hi! I made bridesmaids hair professionally done optional but said if they wanted to get hair done I would pay for it. My bridesmaids all opted to get their hair done. Does the cost of this count...

Hi! I am considering using Lily & Lime's photography & videography services. I know they are a fairly new company and in previous posts (year a half ago or older) people have cautioned against...

We've been researching photographers/videographers and came across Lily and Lime. They seem to have both affordable and professional photographers in their system with great reviews but wondering if...

I want to get my sisters a gift card to their favorite spa as a thank you for hosting my bridal shower. Massages at the place I am getting the gift card to are $140. Can I get a $100...

Hi! trying to decide our timeline... between two options: OPTION 1 1. First dance 2. Guests join with their partners toward end of first dance 3. Dancing 4. Sit for first course OPTION 2 1. First...

Hi! We’re having a photos booth and it included props. Wondering what the consensus is on props. I’ve never like using props, i like just getting a nice picture when I’ve used photo booth at other...

Hi! I have friends who are attending the bachelorette who are not bridesmaids. Am I supposed to get them a gift to thank them? Or will a card suffice?

Hi! I want to do a petal toss during our processional. The FH doesn't love the idea, he thinks it may not work or that it's corny. Thoughts? How has this worked for others who have done it or been a...

For our 4 tier cake, two tiers will be vanilla cake with french cream custard layers. We need to pick a flavor for the other two tiers and are between two flavors (we can only pick one of the two): 1....

Hi! I am of course providing a meal for our photographer, assistant photographer and videographer - they're going to be with us for 10 hours and OF COURSE need to eat. I'm wondering if the same is...

Anyone ever do just a bride & groom entrance (no bridal party entrances) to no music? Just "Lets give a warm welcome for the first time as husband as wife Jack & Jill!" and everyone claps...