Does paying for optional hair services for wedding count toward bridesmaid gift? (also getting them addl gifts)

In my opinion yes it is a gift; however, some people will say otherwise because it is for the wedding specifically (another example is getting ready outfits to wear on the day of, some say gift while some call it a prop)

I honestly think it is dumb there’s is a “what you should spend on a gift thing” a gift should be given out of love and kindness. Not how much a person spends. Sorry off my rant. I think all your getting is fine.

Honestly, I would much prefer hair or makeup for a bride’s wedding than a gift item. So I say yes. 😊

View Quoted Comment 100% agree!

View Quoted Comment 110% agree!! In sorry, if I spent 150 on all my people it would be 750 bucks! Just on wedding party gifts, not even including FHs side! Gifts are meant to be from the heart and as a thank you for standing up next to you on one of the most important days of your life. I spent around 40 for each of my people. I shopped like it was their bday, they are all getting something different along with a hand written thank you note.

I gave my bridesmaids the option of getting their hair makeup done as well. I also told them that due to budget, if they wanted me to pay for it, I would, but that would be their bridesmaid gift. So they knew ahead of time. 1 wants to do her hair and makeup herself and the other 2 only want their makeup done, but said they would pay themselves. So I got them all necklaces.

I think that what you're doing is totally fine. I think that bridesmaid HMU can can't as a gift and I also don't think there is a minimum amount you have to spend on each person.

I think it is enough, and I do not think there is a rule about how much to spend. I would far rather have HMU paid for, and maybe a bottle of wine. I do not wear costume jewelry, I only wear engagement ring, watch my mom gave me, and a ring my FHs GM gave me.

That totally counts as a gift! That is very generous!

Traditionally, people say no that doesn't count. However, the two times I've been a bridesmaid, I would have taken hair or makeup as a gift over a watch I'll never wear again or a cheap robe!

No, getting hair and makeup done for your benefit does not count as a gift to your attendants. Each one should receive a gift selected specifically for her and having absolutely no connection with your wedding.

I believe so yes. I am paying for my girls nails the day before the wedding and they all know it is part of their gift. However, I am also getting them additional items on top of the nails.