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We live in Grand Rapids MI and I work both selling art/clothes online and as a makeup artist in a photography studio. We’re cat people. I tend to get... View More

We live in Grand Rapids MI and I work both selling art/clothes online and as a makeup artist in a photography studio. We’re cat people. I tend to get unintentionally snarky.

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Happily married 🎉

September 8, 2019

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3 days out! Annnndddd at work
Rachel, on September 5, 2019 at 3:55 PM

Just kind of sitting here wasting time. 😂 What’s everyone up to and how far out are you??

Samantha, Sep 6, 2019 44
I’d be lying......
Vanessa, on September 2, 2019 at 2:05 AM

I’d be lying if I said I haven’t been losing sleep the past few nights. Ahhhhh, 18 days away for me! So many things are going through my head. September 21st can’t come any faster!

Krysta, Sep 3, 2019 22
Krystal, on September 1, 2019 at 3:23 PM

Hi all! Has anyone tried the following product?...

Rachel, Sep 2, 2019 2
Veil to go with dress...
Laura, on August 29, 2019 at 5:13 PM

Most didn't mention what kind of dress they had or the neckline that worked with their veil (in an earlier post): Such as a halter, sheath dress, and I chose (x). Or a fit and flare with detailed back...

Monique, Aug 31, 2019 21 1
Return addressing diy invitations and rsvps
Tina, on August 23, 2019 at 9:50 AM

For those of you who made/printed your own invitations, what did you do for return addressing. What I mean is did you hand write, print, use an ink stamp or use labels for your return address on both...

Mrs. Bubba, Aug 31, 2019 27 3
Fake flowers?
Makayla, on August 26, 2019 at 12:31 AM

What are your thoughts on having fake flowers at a wedding? Obviously not the cheap dollar store flowers, more like hobby lobby price range. I just don’t think I can get behind spending so much money...

Nicole, Sep 25, 2019 56 2
Please help my sign be punny :p
Rachel, on August 29, 2019 at 10:08 PM

Hey everyone, So I'm doing a celestial wedding and I don't want to be too dorky or cheesy with signage--we aren't doing much of it at all because I'm not a huge fan of signs other than what is...

beee, Aug 30, 2019 6
Who out there is hyphenating their name or has already done so?
Cassandra, on August 27, 2019 at 9:19 PM

I know there are many people out there with different opinions on changing there last name. I personally want to change my name but I don't want to lose my name either. I have a connection to my...

Kayla, Aug 30, 2019 27
Good ways to find the perfect wedding-night honeymoon suite?
Rachel, on August 28, 2019 at 3:59 PM

Hi, I'm not sure about any of the hotels in my area, and we're looking for a suite just for the wedding night. For those of you not doing hotel blocks, destination weddings, etc., what was a good...

Kat_, Aug 29, 2019 8 1
People making decisions for us...
HoneyImGallone, on July 30, 2019 at 1:43 PM

I am having a huge problem. My FH's family keeps changing everything about this wedding! We want all the guys in gray suits, his dad doesn't want to wear that shade of gray wants his own custom suit...

Jennifer, Oct 16, 2019 40 1
Intimate Courthouse or big wedding
Brittany, on August 27, 2019 at 1:12 AM

Hi , everyone. Im really having a hard decision on having a Courthouse wedding or a medium size wedding Im getting married May 2020. My fiancee wants a medium size and out of city wedding but, I want...

Stefanie, Sep 25, 2019 44
Mother-in-law Wants to Invite Her Friends To The Wedding
Delynn, on August 27, 2019 at 10:51 AM

My future mother-in-law keeps asking me how many of her friends she gets to invite to the wedding. We are trying to keep the wedding small & intimate to keep costs down since we are paying for the...

Jayne, Aug 29, 2019 29
I've already had guests ask to bring extra people - true or false?
Lynnie, on August 27, 2019 at 11:41 AM

Hands down, one of the most frustrating parts of wedding planning is being the guest list police! From rogue relatives offering verbal invites, to your guests assuming they can bring a plus one (or...

Chrysta, Sep 20, 2020 133
Ring Bearer-no Bridal Party
Jenna, on August 27, 2019 at 8:11 AM

Hi everyone! We decided against having bridesmaids and groomsmen (too much drama 🥴) so we are having 2 flower girls and a ring bearer. My question is, since we don’t have a best man, who does our ring...

Kimberly, Aug 28, 2019 10
Hors d’oeurvres reception
Liz, on August 26, 2019 at 9:54 AM

I need some opinions; to save money on our reception our caterer suggested that we do heavy hors d’oeuvres stations instead of a sit down dinner. Do you think I should make it clear to guests on the...

Ivy ORP, Aug 27, 2019 30
Drama Llama Rsvpers
Rachel, on August 24, 2019 at 1:42 PM

RANT WARNING! So I know these topics are dime a dozen around here, but how about a fresh one for this week/today? I am anxiety city over here. I have had ongoing guest list issues with my Drama Llama...

Blag, Dec 15, 2019 9
How to tell family to back off
Ashley, on August 25, 2019 at 10:15 PM

So my grandmother is being really rude and judgmental and giving unwanted advice. First it was my venue choice, then it was my bridesmaids dresses, then my shoes, my Wedding dress! She also to me to...

Cristy, Aug 26, 2019 9