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Hi Anyone have any ideas regarding the timeline of the day of the wedding? The start time for the Ceremony is at 3pm and my Caterer suggested apps around 4pm and dinner around 5pm. We are not doing a...

Hi so I'm getting married in September but I'm on ssdi my fiance isn't and I was wondering can you use some of your social security benefits to help save for the wedding

What does your tentative timeline look like? Is it structured or go with the flow? Is there enough time for everything you want to do or do you have to cut something out? What events are you having...

Hi all! I have 4 bridesmaids wanting to get their hair done. My hairstylist is alotting 45 minutes per bridesmaid and about 2 hours and 15 mins for me. My photographer arrives at 12pm but I also...

Our wedding is in the Fall (my profile says May but I can't find how to change it -- but my real wedding is in November), and while we still have time to plan for things, I wanted to get feedback on...

I found out our wedding venue changed their menu completely and they didn't even notify us. The first menu that we received when we booked the venue was filled with options like hors d'oeuvres, plated...

I bought the attached escort template off of Etsy unaware that there were no cut marks and now running into issues on where to take them to get printed and cut with a slit. Our local print shop just...

Is it normal for a venue to include "optional gratuity to venue staff for planning/execution" on the contract? Even though it says optional, it sounds like they're expecting at least 18%. I understand...

If you had a bartender, did you pay the tip separate at a later date or did you have a jar set out for guests to tip at their discretion? Because many people don’t bring cash to open bars, did the...

My Daughter is getting married in September my husband is walking her down the aisle and then going to be the officiant. The best man is the grooms father. The grooms parents are separated so we are...

Our invites have gone out and our friends and family have verbally told us their plans but have failed to "follow the directions" of RSVPing on our website. It's a pain for us to track this...

So many traditions have come and gone over the years. I’m curious to hear what other brides think about this. Do you think it’s your responsibility to pay for the bridesmaids makeup and/or hair? Or is...

Hi all, I was wondering if you guys had any good wedding planner recommendations for me to use for my wedding? Alex

Hello! Fiance and I are booked for our wedding for August of 2025! Very excited. I feel like we have most of the big expenses booked or at least an idea of what the cost will be, but nervous that I am...

My fiancé and I have a difference of opinion when it comes to who to hire for our wedding. He has a lot of family friends that he wants to hire anticipating on cutting costs or that they may give us...

Super torn for family style vs plated- roughly the same price. Would love any feedback from people who have done both. TYIA!

Hello Good People, I have a quick question. Would it be appropriate to ask a photographer/videographer for an ID when paying for their services? Do photographers/videographers provide? Thanks

Hey there i am getting married in july

Hello all! Having a hard time deciding if whether to have a cake or do a dessert vendor. My fiance and I dont really do cake but we do love cheesecake. Weve been to alot of weddings where the cake...