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September 30, 2023
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24![Melissa](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/8/7/1/7/utbp_38838717.jpg?r=14410)
Our wedding is September 30, 2023. More than 60% of our guests are from out of state. We did send save the dates at the end of last year because of so many out of town guests. I spent a lot of time...
![Melissa](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/8/7/1/7/utbp_38838717.jpg?r=14410)
I don't really wear dresses a lot. I have a white skater dress I wanted to wear with a brown belt and jean jacket crop and brown boots. But then I got thinking about it, and I was wondering if there...
![Melissa](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/8/7/1/7/utbp_38838717.jpg?r=14410)
Instead of the whole bouquet/garter toss thing, we're doing a married couples dance. For those who don't know what that is, basically we have all married couples on the floor and the DJ will have...
![Melissa](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/8/7/1/7/utbp_38838717.jpg?r=14410)
My fiancé opted to leave his mother off of the program as she is not invited anyway and no one has a problem with that as she is an abusive and manipulative person and not a single one of her kids has...
We’ve been together for 4 years, living together family for 18 months. They broke up 8 years ago. I met them on a few occasions and they are lovely people. But, I am old school. I believe leaving and...
![Melissa](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/8/7/1/7/utbp_38838717.jpg?r=14410)
I haven't sent out the invitations with RSVPs yet, but I'm already running into some problems. There's going to be a number of people who have children with different last names, and while I've tried...
![Taylor](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/3/1/7/6/utbp_37153176.jpg?r=32961)
How soon did you order thank you cards? We got 30 preview shots a few days after our wedding and I love one of the photos and really liked some of the others so I ordered thank you cards like a week...
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My good friend and I were discussing my guest list and who I will not be inviting. She mentioned that she heard a discussion about sending cards to people letting them know they are not invited. There...
![Melissa](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/8/7/1/7/utbp_38838717.jpg?r=14410)
I understand weddings are expensive. Unfortunately I've had one before. I don't have the luxury of a family with property and understanding neighbors where we could do more DIY and I understand how...
![Melissa](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/8/7/1/7/utbp_38838717.jpg?r=14410)
Has anyone done this at a wedding? I've heard of leaving a seat open in honor of them. Is there a way to make it more specific? Would it be weird to leave a photo of them, or just a tent card on the...
![Melisa](https://cdn0.weddingwire.com/usr/5/5/3/5/utbp_38015535.jpg?r=58663)
Hi all! I have a conundrum. My fiancé has a ton of friends a few really good friends he has had since he was in high school. All are going to be in his wedding party. He decided on a best man....
Hey! Who has done hotel blocks in here? Did the bride/groom pay for those or did you skip the blocks & have the family paying for their own hotel space?
Hello wedding wire! Our wedding is just a few months away, and after updating our website and creating our invitations, it occurred to me— how can I kindly request guests do not smoke/chew tobacco?...