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Hi everyone, so sorry I just need to get this off my chest. My wedding was 3 weeks ago and I can’t stop thinking about how much I hated it. I planned for over a year and had everything set for it to...

I need help with trying to figure out what all is to be said in the script for the ceremony. My uncle is going to be our officiant. But he's not the best public speaker so we are trying to help him...

Are you having them on full display that are not covered by your dress? Or will you be covering with makeup? Also if you have any bridesmaids with visible tattoos, are you letting them have them on...

I started a new job in September 2021, then applied for and received a "promotion" (of sorts) in January 2022. Early February: I applied to college, hoping to take a course or two this Spring to work...

Hey ya'll, Looking for some ideas! I love the idea of the matching robes for getting ready for the bridal party. I was in three weddings this past year and they really came in handy in terms of not...

I've been going back and forth on what to do for desserts for our day. Neither of us really like cake but will be asking his grandma to make a VERY small cake for just the two of us to cut. We thought...

Hi! My fiancé and I have only been engaged for a couple weeks and haven't discussed major wedding details yet (just budget and guest size). Haven't announced our engagement yet either - I'm in the...

It's been a while since I've seen a venue thread, so I figured I'd start one! What about your venue made you want to book it? Does it have a beautiful ceremony spot among the trees? Or an elegant...

I've read some books/website that say it is up to the bride/groom to pay for the dresses/tuxes of the wedding party, but other sources say it's up to each individual to pay for their own attire ... I...

I'm super nervous about shopping for a wedding dress. I've always been on the chubby side, and never been a confident clothes shopper because of it ... although, I have been losing weight since...

One of the first things I told my fiancé when we got together was "never buy me flowers" - I don't hate flowers, but I believe they should stay in nature, and I just don't want them to die. So I've...

I feel so out of place in most of these forums. I'm looking for my tribe to discuss planning ideas. I'm not so concerned about typical wedding things or what the majority considers the right way to do...

Has anyone else been SO frustrated about vendors not sending pricing when requested? Not to mention when you actually get to the venue and they have a luandry list of hidden fees even if they sent you...

Of course it's not just our day but it's our partner's day as well. If your partner is anything like mine, you have planned most of the wedding yourself, with them saying " you decided it's your day"...

Anyone out there having a small wedding? We aiming for 70- 75ish people. While I’m happy with they amount of people, I’m worried it won’t be enough people to keep the vibe up/dance floor going? Am I...

So originally I didn’t mind the idea of having kids at our wedding - possibly unpopular opinion but I think it’s a fun addition to have kids running and dancing around! We addressed save the dates...

I am having a hard time deciding what colors to have for my winter wedding. Our theme is celestial bodies/ moon and stars. Any suggestions?

It's the week of love, y'all! Which makes me feel all warm and fuzzy inside and curious to know - when was the moment you realised you were in love with your spouse? In my experience, it's usually not...

My father and I have a great, but not normal relationship. We are definitely way more likely to sit back and have a beer than anything else, and have never been super close in terms of serious...

I’m not sure what I really want to do to keep my guest safe. Is anyone requiring Covid test before the wedding? If so how are you tracking the results? I just want everyone to be as safe as possible....