Discussions I've participated in

My wedding is scheduled for next March. My fiancé and I aren’t religious and we have decided to have a secular wedding. Lately, my fiancé has expressed to me that he’s not comfortable with a stranger...

Hi brides! Question, how much did you spend on flowers and was it worth it? Did you repurpose any of the flowers I.e Ceremony to reception? I plan on repurposing the flowers on the arch to our...

Does any one or did any one have trouble NOT looking at their purchased gifts on their registry before your shower? I got word that my shower invites are being delivered (i had no part in planning my...

Have you made any decisions for your wedding that people think is “weird”? I’ve gotten a lot of “side-eye” for my choice of man of honor (instead of maid of honor). Not so much that I’ve chosen a man...

Where in the US are you going for your honeymoon? Can you please share what you plan to do? Where you booked it? I am soooo lost! Thanks! How much you’re paying (if it’s not too personally to ask...

I was reading this on another website and it made absolutely no sense. If you have a concern why would you keep quiet and not ask the bride? Getting in touch on the wedding day to hash out problems is...

Hello All!! I am such a planner - I feel like I have everything ready for our 6/18 wedding. I have reached out to all vendors to make sure we are all set, packed up everything to be brought to the...

I could really use some outside perspective on this! Some background: My friend is having a bachelorette weekend in Vegas this summer and invited me to go. I’m not a bridesmaid but I’m excited to be...

I have men in my bridal party and women in the groom's party. Everyone will match in color (black tuxes, burgundy dresses). Everyone gets to choose whether they want to wear a dress or tux. Dress...

How many times have you been a wedding party member in someone else's wedding? What role(s) did you have?

Hi everyone! My fiancé and I aren’t super into cake and we are trying to come up with some different ideas on what we can do instead of cake. I love the idea of having glazed donuts and possibly a...

I'm super curious to see where everyone is shopping at and how many dresses until you found the one you want to wear for the wedding.

Hello! So I’ve read some articles on this topic and some of the feedback was pretty negative, so I’m curious to see what the results would be for my more specific situation… We were planned to be...