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Are there more people worried about this? I loooove to dance and i am planning to dance all night on our wedding day. On the other hand my FH hates dancing and i am scared we won't be together because...

Hey all! I would LOVE to see some before & after shots for inspo! I never wear much makeup so I think seeing some real life samples of the "power of makeup" will help me get a better idea of what...

I get married on Friday, and FH's family are absolutely taking all enjoyment out of it and I just want to get to the wedding and have all this planning be over with. Last night my FFIL asked if he...

Hi! I’m wondering does the wedding party have to stand for the first dance? I’m asking 1. Cause my parents are older and I want to minimize their time spent standing..and 2. We have 14 in our bridal...

My wedding is a week from tomorrow. My photographer has an online portal which we can communicate through. The last time he used it was towards the end of June to send a questionnaire to get all the...

I had started smoking when I was 17 and smoked minimally for 4 years (smoking just over a pack a week at the height of my smoking). I easily quit in February 2021 when I realized things were going...

Hi all, My sister and her husband will both be in my wedding party, and their 7 year daughter old will be a flower girl. It will be a medium sized wedding (adults only, except the flower girl). The...

Feeling a little overwhelmed with all the options out there! Where's the best place for save the dates, invites etc at a reasonable price?

Hi everyone, I grew up in Kansas City and was pretty close with my family until we moved when I was 10 years old to California. While living in California we weren’t very close with my family back in...

We are 11 days out, we get married next Friday and I am at the end of my rope. FH's parents keep saying they're going to give us money for the wedding, we haven't seen it yet, FH keeps saying "if they...

Anyone else play sort of unconventional wedding music for cocktail hour or dinner? My fiancé and I are big into alternative music (nothing heavy sounding or anything) and our DJ said to pick songs...

Now me and my MIL are not close...at all. There's been on and on tension for the past 5 years just sitting there. I'd have to watch my every move it felt like. Till we got engaged in Oct 2021. She...

Anyone have any good recommendations for beautiful but not break the bank expensive garters? I dont plan on doing a garter toss because they simply gross me out, BUT I do still plan on wearing one-...

I want to know, what are y’all doing for wedding favors for your guests? Many couples are cutting out this tradition, while others are sticking to a more practical idea, like something edible. My...

We're getting married in 16 short days, but our social calendar for weddings appears to be filling up so quickly I'm getting nervous that we're not going to be able to do them all! We're at that age...

Anyone have any shoe recs for rehearsal dinner shoes? Looking for a wedge or a block heel! I had shoes but they broke at my shower, and I don't really want to spend another $80 on the same pair...

I’m getting married in 18 days and some worries are coming to my mind. I’m 26 and my fiancé is 40. I’ve dated other guys before. I had a first boyfriend in high school and then I dated my first love...