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Hi! did anyone do a cigar bar at their wedding? We're thinking just a table with custom matches in a bowl, boxes of nice cigars, etc. Not a professional rolling them or anything. We were thinking of...

Hi! We can only have our actual rehearsal at our venue earlier in the day (around 12 or 1pm) because there’s a wedding that evening. Is it weird to have that big of gap between then and the dinner...

Anyone from the northern Virginia area?! Our welcome party venue cancelled on us and we are feeling defeated! It would be for around 70-80 people. Everywhere is so small due to historic buildings. Any...

Hey! We have a wedding (as an attendee) where the ceremony is in a church at 12 then the cocktail hour/reception doesn’t begin until 4pm. Is it odd to change dresses in-between as a guest?

Hi - we're doing a welcome event for our guests + wedding party in lieu of a formal rehearsal dinner. We weren't planning to provide transportation from hotels to the welcome party (ubers available,...

Hey all! I love the look of black envelopes with white font for save the dates. What are your thoughts? Is it too drab for a wedding invite? I think it’s sleek! FH thinks it’s odd (especially since...

Anyone else moving their 2021 dates to 2022. Or thinking about it? Here is our thought process for why we moved our date. I had everything booked by April of this year for our 2021 date. I am now...

Hey Everyone, We have a June 2021 wedding where our state's current mandate is max 10 people for gathering. Our vendors have been amazing allowing us to book a "back up" 2022 date with them. The more...

Hi all - we’re going to have a Sunday wedding in 2022 (rescheduling from this year). There were literally no Saturdays in the spring/summer available at our venue even over a year out. My FH and I...

I am officially freaking out now. My state went back and capped indoor events to 10 people.. My venue is pushing me to postpone but I don’t thing my state will increase capacity by march.Thinking...

I’m less than six months away from my wedding in July. Even with some restrictions possibly lifted, it seems as though having a “normal” wedding is not possible (with no dancing, masks, etc.)....

Hi everyone! Happy New Year! Now that we are officially in 2021, I am extremely nervous about our June 12 wedding. I live in Illinois where our COVID restrictions are pretty tight. We have a large...

I have a bit of a unique situation because my wedding will be in April 2021 and my SIL’s wedding is in May 2021. I have been freaking out about my wedding and stressing big time over restrictions,...

Hey all - I have a cathedral veil, which I can imagine can get a little tricky during group photos. Did you wear your veil for group photos or just the ceremony and pics with husband after the...