Discussions I've participated in

I'm considering keeping my middle name, adding my last name as a second middle name, and then taking FHs last name. Does anyone else have four names? Does it complicate paperwork or anything else?

How much did you spend on your seating chart ? I am having a custom seating chart built . It’s 900 . Am I crazy ?

Do the ties need to match the bridesmaid dresses? I'm having such difficulty finding the exact color. It can't be too bright of a purple or too dark otherwise it doesn't look right. Here's a picture...

For those that got hitched before the wedding day, did you feel like the magic from your wedding day was gone? Would you have preferred waiting until your wedding day to get married?

Just curious - for anyone who has had or is planning a destination wedding, why did you choose to do so versus having a local wedding? This is simply out of curiosity!

Hi! My FH and I are set on having a destination wedding most likely in Mexico. 1. Is it necessary to send Save the Dates or can I just send the invite since it will have information about booking and...

We are having a destination wedding in Mexico and after postponing my wedding last year we're finally 2 months away. My question is- is it tacky to text my family and friends for their meal choices?...

We're eloping just the two of us! We're doing 2 weeks in Greece, eloping on day #5 in Santorini. I have to haul my dress from Phoenix to Athens (minimum 2 flights) to Crete (another flight) for a few...

Hello. I’m planning my wedding in St. John USVI this February. Some of my family and friends have opted to go, we’ll have about a group of 20 it’s looking like. The ceremony is going to be at 1:30-2...

My fiance and I have family on opposite sides of the country so either way there will be a lot of traveling for 1/2 the guest list. We are considering having our wedding where I'm from, where he's...

Hello y’all. We are planning to do our honeymoon in December this year and we’re deciding between 3 locations. We’ve never been to any of these locations so, I would like to know y’all advice or...

If you were traveling to Mexico to attend a wedding, would you bring a card? I'm trying to gauge if I'll need to setup a card box/table. I'm thinking with the stress of packing and traveling not many...

I am having a destination wedding August 2022 in Mexico (Riviera Maya) and I am trying to research about renting suits. So far what I've read is 90% of people end up buying the suits/groomsmen...

Do I need to do welcome bags for my hotel guests? I’m a bride on a budget and really wondering if I can skip this… but I obviously don’t want to slight my guests!

It sucks that future hubby won't have any groomsmen in the wedding. But I have 6 really close friends and I still want them to be part of my day. Is that crazy? Odd? I don't think I should have to...

I love the idea of doing a sparkler exit for my wedding, but my venue is a restaurant and is open until 2 a.m. because they serve alcohol, so technically we have all night to keep partying. I was...

Brides, if you had to name 2 things that were expensive but totally worth it what would they be? On the flip side, what were 2 things that you purchased that ended up being a total waste of money?

My food preference is very basic so I'm torn between selecting the food choices for our cocktail hour. As a guest, which items would you rather see on the menu? (I can choose 5 items) -Tuna tartar...