My fiance and I have family on opposite sides of the country so either way there will be a lot of traveling for 1/2 the guest list. We are considering having our wedding where I'm from, where he's from, and a total destination wedding in Italy. We can't decide on what would be best. We can afford all 3 options so that's not a concern. Having a lot of people not come to the Italy wedding is also not a concern because we know the core people we love will be there, however I know it would be a lot to travel there. Should we just tour places domestically and see how we feel? How did you decide on a destination wedding?