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Last year we postponed our wedding (in Santa Cruz, CA) from Oct 3, 2020 to Oct 16, 2021 thinking that we wouldn’t even have to worry about covid by the time our postponed date was Here. Now, with...

When we booked our venue, they told us they had a minimum of 80 guests. With our current rsvps, I highly doubt we'll reach 80 guests. We'll honestly be lucky if we get 60... Those who have done venues...

We got married at home in August due to the pandemic and decided to have our orginal reception on our one year anniversary now that most of our family and friends are fully vaccinated and restrictions...

I'm having bridal portraits done and I'm debating about if I should go back to my natural hair or leave my hair pink. My partner votes keep it pink, but I don't know...Brides that have hair different...

Has anyone dealt with nonresponsive vendors? I signed a contract for a DJ and he was supposed to send over payment info so I can pay the deposit. It's been almost two weeks and I still haven't heard...

My fiancé & I have our wedding scheduled for 8/14/21 in Maumee Ohio. Currently Ohio has strict guidelines that include no dancing, seated the entire time, and more. Do we wait it out and hope...

It's finally 2021 - and I personally am so excited because it's finally our wedding year! I have been with my fiancé, Rob, for 9 1/2 years (this year makes 10 years) and to say I have been waiting a...

My husband and I had a Covid elopement on our original date back in May. I keep seeing so many BAM posts where brides say their downsized, change of plans wedding was amazing and perfect. I just don't...

Like a lot of couples, we decided to elope on our original wedding date. Only our parents and wedding party were present for the ceremony. We had photos done of our intimate ceremony and took a TON of...

Hi brides/grooms! My future husband and I are low-key, big country music fans! We are searching for the perfect first dance song. I want something slow, mellow and acoustic. Something along the lines...

If you’ve postponed your wedding, what did your venue charge you to reschedule?

Hi everyone!! I just got engaged yesterday (10/05) and already decided on our date lol. May 22nd is our dating anniversary and just happens to fall on a Saturday in 2021! I'm so excited!! When are...

We just decided to have a microwedding. Including us, there will only be 10 people total. Our parents and wedding party are the only guests. I'm assuming that we won't really walk down an aisle as we...

We fought the inevitable. Every day we stressed watching the governor do talks and obsessed over case numbers. Yesterday Ohio had it's largest case count to date. Hospitalizations are increasing. Bars...

Those of you who got married or will marry on their original date and will have the wedding celebration next year, how does that work? You won't have a ceremony, just reception? or you'll be having a...

Is anyone else not doing a rehearsal dinner?? IMO they are a waste of money, and I am confident we all know how to walk down an aisle and stand on the appropriate side. Curious to see if anyone else...